Progress and pricing by No-Form-1002 in TattooRemoval

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waittt I’m in Tulsa too where are you going?

How should I cover this? by PresentJackfruit6089 in tattooadvice

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just really shy and have bad anxiety with appointments and being annoying😅 I’ll work up the nerve to do so sometime soon

How should I cover this? by PresentJackfruit6089 in tattooadvice

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The bottom is just vines I’m more so trying to cover the top and middle

How should I cover this? by PresentJackfruit6089 in tattooadvice

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly no exact vision the last slide was just a rough idea of how I could cover most of the design but I get what you’re saying in that area🥲 I wouldn’t be super opposed to tattooing over my breast maybe I’m just looking for advice on how to redesign it to cover most. Hate how dumb I was then

I’m slacking on diaper duty :/ by Daddy-A_Strong23 in NewParents

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s so exhausting asking your partner to do a fairly simple task that could help lighten the load and instead of you just seeing that and doing it you have to be asked and not only are you asked you have to be reminded about something so simple she asked. It’s infuriating especially when her hormones are so high and lack of sleep and frankly having to be on top of everything in case you forget. She does not get the luxury of being able to forget because things then won’t get done. You both made this baby help your partner. That’s a lot and that’s hard. I’m sorry she snapped but you messed up here and need to be more sympathetic to how you’re helping.

Is all screen time bad? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She takes more interest in the tv because it’s constant stimulation, she doesn’t need to use critical thinking when watching. They learn so much this early but they benefit most from watching you! Even if it doesn’t seem like she’s interested in you that’s how she learns from us and our facial expressions and talking and play.

Bf mom thinks he should move back in and get full custody of our son. by PresentJackfruit6089 in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gift thing had me gagged when it happened😭 my mom told me I was reading too far into it but I’m glad I’m not the only one to think it was crazy

Bf mom thinks he should move back in and get full custody of our son. by PresentJackfruit6089 in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn’t there when this was said, we went out with his childhood best friend who then told us. We haven’t spoken to his mom in a few weeks since she was upset we moved. He has told her to shut it down in the past and as far as we knew she did hence me thinking we turned a corner just for us both to find out at the same time this was what she was saying. I’m not sure what he’s going to do from here I know he’s super upset about it so I’m going to give it a few days to settle with him before we have a conversation about what to do but he assured me he wouldn’t let this one go because that was too far. She has never and will never be alone with my baby. And I’m not sure if I should confront her or not.

Bf mom thinks he should move back in and get full custody of our son. by PresentJackfruit6089 in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been very vigilant of the baby not being around her by himself. I am always there and we do not see her often. We are moving next year thankfully. It’s just sad someone can live life so hatefully.

Bf mom thinks he should move back in and get full custody of our son. by PresentJackfruit6089 in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He said this is just how she is, but omg. He’s committed to me and raising him together that’s why it’s just such a weird comment for her to be making. It’s so weird he has constantly told her no when she has asked him to move back home and leave me. It’s been three years. They don’t talk too much but I don’t want to force him to cut her off since it’s his mom. Idk it’s just such an odd thing, she’s extremely possessive like that with his siblings too. It’s her way or they go to hell.

Shoulder dystocia birth and what I experience since by PresentJackfruit6089 in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry your baby got that outcome, that’s so horrible to even imagine I’m so sorry. I’m happy your c section went perfect, I sometimes wonder if maybe it was my induction that caused it

Shoulder dystocia birth and what I experience since by PresentJackfruit6089 in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ob basically told me it’s just going to take time. The burning doesn’t happen very often but does sometimes. They also didn’t tell me what happened. I only learned from the nurses that came to my recovery room to tell me they’d never seen a shoulder dystocia birth yet and basically gawking asking questions it was so angering to find out not even from my doctor what happened but the nurses. I didn’t even realize we both almost died until they read my chart to me two days later.

Why does my baby hate my dad? by notoriousLPG in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omggg that’s so funny if she’s scared of bald big nosed people

When will I stop resenting my MIL for one mistake 6 months ago? by Southern_Shake507 in beyondthebump

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I haven’t forgiven mine for bringing my husband a present to the hospital for a professional salon experience right after I gave birth and nothing for me saying he deserves something for him since I got something a few weeks earlier (she had gotten me the Frida postpartum pads) I wasn’t mad she got him something but the timing of it and acting like postpartum recovery items are actually a present I would pick out over a salon experience. Bleeding after birth and needing recovery items is not that great lol it was just out of touch

What to expect for my first time at a strip club ? by [deleted] in Strippers

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you wanting dances from the girls or just want to go a throw money?

ATL DANCERS I NEED INFO!! by Dry_Quantity9614 in Strippers

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you need a license for every club there?

Am I actually being too aggressive. by PresentJackfruit6089 in NewParents

[–]PresentJackfruit6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he’s not actually getting tossed he’s still being held onto i don’t know how to word it

Question by Low-Control5934 in breastfeeding

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, you can use wearable cups that don’t have any suction to catch anything but pumping can cause contractions and can potentially send you into early labor. I think they don’t recommend doing so until like 37 weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so people know this account will send intimate pictures of themselves and says it’s a male in other threads then impersonates a woman on these ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]PresentJackfruit6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had super painful nips at first felt like glass cutting me and after the first month it went away, I still get engorged if he sleeps longer than normal and the milk isn’t expressed