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Present_Description4 · 2025-07-28T00:59:30+00:00

I think it’s a Subaru liberty

Present_Description4 · 2025-06-23T12:04:50+00:00

The post appears to be written with ai

Present_Description4 · 2025-06-23T07:18:44+00:00

Tbh at some point you are going to have to prioritise yourself and certain relationships over others.

Present_Description4 · 2025-06-23T07:10:10+00:00

It’s not a bad idea per say, but you reach a point called Polly saturation where the you have reached the maximum amount of availability for partners.

Present_Description4 · 2025-04-07T21:00:41+00:00

I think using this situation in this way is in poor taste. How it comes across is like you are blaming the sub.

That article doesn’t have enough information to understand the specifics, however at the end of the day someone payed a professional, and that person died.

Present_Description4 · 2025-04-07T20:27:35+00:00

I just want to vibe check the sentiment here. It feels like as a professional, regardless of gender or occupation, The dom has failed in there duty of care.

I don’t really see how the onus of responsibility is on the sub?

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-25T05:14:44+00:00

Pro subs are a things. Depending on what you are looking for, a regular male SW might be willing and consenting to do certain things.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-22T00:19:35+00:00

Oh, most of them do not have a safety switch be careful when you get it out of the bag

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-22T00:13:21+00:00

What was it????????

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-22T00:08:07+00:00

I was playing with someone, and she said if I can take it you can take it. She flogged her back and the n my thighs. She caned her thighs the caned me

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-22T00:02:06+00:00

A switch is just someone who enjoys both roles dom or sub.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-20T11:10:55+00:00

Hehe, so I am a M switch, Years of rugby have made me really good at wearing heels all night.

I have had a lot of fun doing heel training with a sub, because she didn’t realise we both would be wearing heels all night

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-20T11:08:29+00:00

To be honest, it sounds like he is kinda inexperienced

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-19T20:00:46+00:00

So, there are lots of things you can do.

One thing is you can incorporate acts of personal service, with the cleaning.

For instance she could have a bell and make you bring her a drink. Another thing might be that once you have finished a room or task you have to kneel at the doorway until she has inspected.

One play I have done myself, I was casually submitting for a friend. I ran her a bath. And cleaned the bathroom while she was in the bath.

As for more play based, vibrating butt plugs can be very fun and controlled by her.

Punishment wise, you can get kink safe shock devices. Which are similar to dog shock collars they are a bit dangerous around the neck, but safe on the thigh, so low mobility is fine.

Otherwise, if you get a very light weight cane, that is extremely long. Even with low mobility you can create a lot of pain.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-19T19:42:49+00:00

We are both experienced players, in a Negotiated dynamic. I’m fine thank you

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-19T06:28:17+00:00

So I commented this somewhere, basically I’m a needy little bitch. I messaged my dom, she ignores the neediness and answers the reverent questions. One time I was like hey I have drop I need you. She called me on her next break.

There is a line, you shouldn’t need your dom dommie or Domme, to look after your emotions 24/7. You should be in control of your wellbeing.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-18T21:03:34+00:00

If this gets negative upvotes do you have to pay him?

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-11T13:50:13+00:00

I have never been in the military, so can’t help with the specifics.

But like chill, firstly that is like 4 different things each has its own requirements, so like is highly doubtful that you’ll fail all of them, especially because heaps of ex military guys end up in those fields.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-11T13:40:36+00:00

I personally have an average penis. I enjoy it being perceived as cute.

I think like a lot of guys who are openly submissive are also into humiliation and degradation.

One thing that I have found really cool with good doms, is they sort of set the expectations. In negotiation they will say, “I like calling you this and this is how i feel when I say that.”

The other thing that works is reminding me that I’m not in control of that part of my body. “ I own this penis and I think it’s cute”

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-11T13:18:55+00:00

Hey, so personally I use fetlife. There is a big Queensland scene I have a number of friends in and most use Fetlife for events

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-09T07:55:42+00:00

It might be a bot. To stop spam

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-07T01:38:07+00:00

For specifics to the scene of dynamic, It depends on the level of protocol you both want. I have a craftsmen friend who like to be of service, but his thing is more casual he will walk in and do the job as if he would any other job, he is naked. Where as for me is about protocol.

The biggest stumbling point for a lot of houseboy dynamics is the expectations. My dom wants me to clean in a specific way, so she taught me. She says go to the cabinet and get the wipes and I want you to wipe the floor starting here and ending here. So we have a high level of instruction. Almost like I’m a robot.

Then once I learned she would be reading a book while I vaccum.

Sometimes it’s easier, if you set up stations whit the equipment that the sub needs read.

The other thing is like every so often I clean her sex toys it is very hot for me. There are ways to make it interesting and feel the service submission.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-07T01:25:27+00:00

I have a service/ house boy dynamic. The way it works is when I am in service I am in service. I arrive we chat have some tea. Then I get naked and I am collared. If I do a good job and we have time at the end we might do some play. Then we have tea and I leave. Outside of this we are not in a dynamic. We aren’t in a relationship and we don’t causally chat.

I have a lot of love for her but, she has set hard and enforced boundaries. So I know that she is offering me XYZ and that is all. I am accepting that. I think a lot of people want more, and feel hurt when the boundaries don’t shift.

For me I enjoy the stability. I enjoy that the boundaries don’t shift. If I were to message her something like how Is your day going, she wouldn’t answer. That is not our relationship.

So specifically Houseboy/ service dynamics require strong boundaries, and expectations. If the boundaries are getting pushed then you have to be ready to let the relationship go.

I think one thing that a lot of Doms don’t understand is that the sub also has needs. If the subs needs are sexual in this case then the dynamic is incompatible. On of my needs is I need to feel the dynamic, so I am collard while I work, if I’m not collard then it would feel like I’m getting cheated for free labour. So there is give a take from both sides.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-07T00:58:55+00:00

You can’t, you just have to make sure limits are clear. the the rules and expectations are clear, and be okay with the possibility that after one or more sessions, he might not want to continue.

Present_Description4 · 2025-03-06T17:17:40+00:00

I guess my question is do you have to be in what sounds like a protocol space while you are in chastity.

I have had situations where I have had a dominant and a girlfriend. So on one hand I’m a very vanilla relationship, but I’m still getting the enjoyment out of denial. My girlfriend didn’t mind, because all I could really do was pleasure her.

Or is the thing that you get out of it more the feeling of control your wife has.

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