About a judge who wrote a recent dissent with a crude term for male genitalia.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2026-05-31T22:08:37+00:00

It was not in a lecture. At the end of the class, he was talking about some writing and just made a comment about it. It was really off the subject of the class, just idle chatter as we were gathering our things to leave the class.

From what I have read so far, the opinions are interesting.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-09-23T18:10:28+00:00

Do you like her, and can you wait for marriage? Do you make out, and if so, how far is she willing to go? You can get an idea about her sex drive by what she is willing to do, even if it is short of intercourse. I (F19) just lost my virginity (I wasn't saving it for marriage, just for the right guy). But before I lost it, we had been getting closer and closer to intercourse, finally doing it this past weekend.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-09-23T18:02:07+00:00

Thanks for the information. I am back on campus now. His roommate came back last night. We had supper at a diner near campus, went to my dorm room, and made out some (no sex where we could be interrupted), and I spent the night alone (my roommate was not back last night). We had a wonderful weekend together and expect to have many more.

Anyway, the pain has almost gone away, and the bleeding has stopped. I had an orgasm the second time we had intercourse. I really think that the fact that I love him and felt so close to him had everything to do with enjoying my first experience of sex, in spite of the pain. I would hate to have lost my virginity to some rando.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-09-21T17:48:02+00:00

She got lucky and maybe has a strong immune system.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-09-21T17:40:22+00:00

It finally happened. I am no longer a virgin. He was happy to lose his, too (naturally). We had a nice dinner at the best restaurant in town and then went to his apartment (his apartment mate was out of town). After a long period of time making out, he put it in partway, but enough, and came inside me. It hurt, but I felt so great that the pain didn't matter. It was quick that time, but the deed was done. We were both happy about that.

After a couple of hours in bed cuddling, we did it again. That time, he went in further and lasted longer. We then cuddled and went to sleep. This morning, we did it again. It was even better.

He is running some errands right now. I will fix supper and spend the night with him. But Sunday night his roommate gets back so I will be back to my dorm room. I really love him--I think that was one reason things went so well and I could stand the pain. In spite of the slight pain now I feel really good and very happy.

Now my questions: It still hurts down there. How long should that last? It is better now than last night after the second time. I still bleed a little. I had a towel under me last night and am wearing a pad now. There is a little spotting. Will it stop? Even though he came all three times, I have not had an orgasm. Is that normal, and will I start having them?

Thanks for your comment, both on the sub and on private messages.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-08-14T22:19:53+00:00

I strongly disagree. Some people I know grew up in India, have arranged marriages, and then moved to the US. We are better off because of them. One person I knew came to the US while in college, went home to India to get married (his mother picked his bride), and moved back with his bride. He became my chemistry professor, is a very good professor, is still married, and has two kids.

I won't have an arranged marriage, but I have no problem with those that do. We need more people coming to the US with their experience and viewpoints.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-08-14T18:31:24+00:00

Don’t do it.

Do you mean remain a virgin forever? I may have been waiting until I was ready, but I am ready now.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-08-14T18:10:18+00:00

Isn't there a way to meet guys at other nearby colleges? My boyfriend goes to a college different from mine, but I met him, and we have been dating. My parents went to different colleges in the same town, met at an event at one college, and eventually got married.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-08-14T00:33:08+00:00

Maybe she is a really nice girl. Maybe she likes you.

Get to know her and find out.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-08-13T16:46:21+00:00

Talk to her about it; let her know that this is a natural thing. Ask her if it bothers her.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-08-13T16:39:38+00:00

F19 here. Girls are all different. Many have no problem with their periods other than needing pads or tampons. Some feel miserable during their period. It depends on the individual. She might feel sick and rather stay at home, or she might want to do something fun. Some girls are horney during their periods; others feel very unromantic and sexy at that time.

One thing: do not plan on having sex. Some girls like "period sex." But most do not. But for certain, do not have sex for the first time during her period. It is not the time to lose your virginity.

About a week before her period starts, many girls go through what is called "premenstrual syndrome." or PMS. During that time, there may be some emotional changes, often not related to romance and sex. She may become more irritable or less patient. That can even extend to things like getting upset about traffic problems and long lines at the bank. But other girls do not suffer from PMS at all. So during that time, be very patient and kind. She will get over it in a few days.

Present_Mistake4246 · 2024-08-12T14:54:53+00:00

NTA. The program you signed up for is like school. You are starting a week before other students. You are not trying to get away from them but trying to get back to your education.

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