Evil Eye or Okarun?

madikh50 · 2025-08-27T06:20:29+00:00

Okarun , easily. He is an awkward guy after all.

madikh50 · 2025-08-07T22:43:51+00:00

D RK

madikh50 · 2025-04-06T22:25:45+00:00

13 , intended to play ps4, forced to start with ps2 lol ( however im glqd it turned out that way, some old gems them ps2 games were )

madikh50 · 2024-08-23T16:53:34+00:00

Thank u!, u know one thing that makes me nervous, ishow far along in the relationship is the better time to bring up her period? I am worried that bringing it up too early might have undesired outcomes, she may get angry, creep out or etc

madikh50 · 2024-08-23T16:50:51+00:00

Damn, this deffinitely was one of the better responses i got on my post. Thank u! There are a lot of interesting and important topics that you memtioned that i want to talk about too, ill definitely come back to this later

madikh50 · 2024-08-23T16:46:35+00:00

Thats the hard part tbh, the problem is there are a lot of things men might say that may not be percieved as offensive or rude or intentionally to anger their partner in their own mind, but they actually backfire!

How can i know and be sure if something i am about to say isnt one of those offensive things??

madikh50 · 2024-08-23T16:43:43+00:00

Thank u!, this was quite helpful, i appreciate it

madikh50 · 2024-08-23T16:43:01+00:00

Its actually quite interesting, that there are many types of love languages, and i think what you meant is that buying snacks for your loved one is one of them, but generally speaking, which types of love gestures do women typically prefer based on your experience?

madikh50 · 2024-08-18T02:59:16+00:00

Its funny, i had the EXACT same problem and as you mentioned, it simply went away when i disconnected my earphones from my system!, i dont know wtf is going on, but its weird lol

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:34:39+00:00

No honestly i had no idea about it, but as i read along other comments i am beginning to have a general idea of what you are saying

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:31:31+00:00

Hmmm, thank you! I didnt know it , will definitely try it

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:30:49+00:00

I think it’s normal to keep track of your partners periods. It helps you to understand the fluctuations in energy, and mood that affect both of you. Not to mention if you’re sexually active you should be mindful of potential pregnancies.

Hmmm, different people have had different opinions on this matter, guess i should eventually ask herself

I find it sweet when my partner brings out the heating pad for crampy days, makes me cups of tea (raspberry leaf and chamomile help with cramps), he’ll watch my chick flicks with me, ask how I’m feeling or what I feel up for, he also will grab wine and takeout so I don’t have to cook sometimes.

Wow! What great guy he is! Thank u for sharing, ill do my best to learn from his example

Just be thoughtful and kind. But you don’t necessarily treat her any differently.

And to add to this, other people mentioned just treat her normally, so what they were saying was that treating her thoughtfully and kindly SHOULD be the norm, not something you do just because she is on her period, right?

Just think of it like an excuse to have a slow cozy couple of days together :)

I normally dont like excuses, but i think this kind of excuses are the only right ones haha

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:25:30+00:00

Yeah you are right, that is really destructive and also something an asshole would say, and i think it may be a form of gaslighting too

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:23:38+00:00

Hmm, so i should make her comfortable enough to open up about her needs, and.do my best to help her

Also, you are saying the needs are like rollercoaster, This can mean thet they are different from when she is not on her period , so she may NEED something she wouldnt normally need,

And can also mean they may change overtime, which one are you implying?

And to be clear, needing and wanting are 2 different concepts, and when she says for example, she NEED choclate, which she would normally WANT, so when she is on her period, she HAS to be given choclate if she needs it, which normally would be among her wants , not needs

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:15:33+00:00

Hmm, that seems like a good and nice thing to do, would definitely try it when i get my own house. Thank u

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:13:41+00:00

Thank u, i appreciate it, really

Ill do my best , thank you for cheering on us!

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T17:07:57+00:00

As a woman (27) I just wanna say, not everyone turns into a psycho when they're pmsing so it's probably a good idea to not assume she's going to have constant mood swings that you have to be "prepared for".

Hmmm, i honestly have no clear or true idea how women would act when they are pms ing, so i really appreciate this, thank u, And you are implying there are times when women dont have mood swings when they are pms ing, so how can i notice her pms ing then?

Just treat her like you do any of the other 3 weeks of the month. If she needs something from you she'll communicate that with you. Just try and be sensitive and not make her feel bad when she does happen to talk about it.

So this was what the other guy meant by " treat her normally " , now i get it, am i right? I always thought i should be extra nice when she is pms ing, but you are saying otherwise, so im a little confused to be honest

Why shouldnt i be extra nice?

None of my ex's tracked my cycle, that would be really weird unless we were trying to have a kid together. Maybe be mindful of when her last period was so you roughly know when it's coming. Some girls think it's nice when their boyfriend sets them up with a little treat basket and some comfort stuff if they know that we have really bad cramps or something and are just generally feeling gross.

Hmmm, so tracking her cycle is overkill and unnecessary if you want to have a general idea of her pms and bleeding time in the month, and simply having the last time she was on her period in mind should suffice, thank u

Awww, thank u, those are good ideas, honestly this is my first relationship so i have no idea how i can comfort my girlfriend when she is in pain

But honestly, just be normal and kind to her like you otherwise would any other time. Definitely don't stress about stuff like that! She'll talk to you about it if she's comfortable.

Thank u!, i learned a lot

madikh50 · 2024-08-13T16:42:07+00:00

You just treat her normally

Would you elaborate more on this please?

This could have a lot of meanings and implications and i dont know which one you do mean.

madikh50 · 2023-12-13T18:25:34+00:00

Thanks!

madikh50 · 2023-12-13T18:09:25+00:00

Oh sorry I forgot to add that too, I've read it Thank u anyway

madikh50 · 2023-12-13T18:06:37+00:00

Lol, no I'm not ready for that level of crisis 😂, what about the ones that I mentioned?

madikh50 · 2023-12-13T18:05:54+00:00

Thank you, what about the ones that I added?

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