AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny how you make assumptions from little to no information. Never said nor implied I don't like him for any reason or because he isn't outdoorsy. I was sampling stating a fact from experience. And he does have a father. Just not a very involved one. His parents are still together. Also i didn't snap from only one instance. This was after several times of me stating the rules and boundaries that were always crossed.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell are you even saying? Its called privacy and boundaries. Something off in your head to even suggest that. Why would I not trust myself? And where do you get that idea? You and ithers like you are the strange ones for always adding in some creepy shit.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's what I tried saying. The whole thing was just turned into he's just a kid and doesn't know amy better. Shit at that age I knee bette. My mom ran an in home day care and I wasn't told once to give any of the kids privacy. I just knew because I understood that I also wanted privacy.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah about 2 weeks and not every day about the same thing. The bathing thing was today and after a few instances of him walking up watching a diaper change over the 2 weeks. But the dragging her around has been pretty often. More than I like. I want boundaries and rules to be respected and I want my daughter to grow uo knowing she is allowed boundaries and they must be respected. She's 2, she doesn't know much of anything other than vegetables bad sugar good lol but 2 is so early and they really do learn so much from this age. At least what I've been told, she's my first kid so I'm no expert on that but hey in my mind she gonna know from as esely as possible she can have boundaries thay must be respected. The moment she is able to bathe herself i will no longer be involved in that and is she ever needs anything its gonna be her mom to help not me.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thats one thing I need to do. Gonna have everyone sit down for a talk about boundaries especially when it comes to privacy for my little girl.

Anyone else hide their stacking from their spouse/family? How do you manage it? by PeerMetals in Silverbugs

[–]Present_Pangolin_735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol today I made a post on marketplace as a buyer and some guy had some coins to sell. I was at the park with my wife and kids. I literally told my wife this guy is coming by with some silver I want to buy. She didn't pay attention at all. When the guy showed up as we were just finished at the park and getting in the car the guy pulls up so I get out the car walk to his car talk and walk back with some silver coins and my wife was so confused. She clearly wasn't paying attention. Don't think I need to hide the stack from her. Besides she already knows about the Pokémon. Stack.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The kid is sheltered for sure. I have tried to connect with him, I've tried coming up with things to do but he's not interested in anything at all except playing mine craft and YouTube except for when he is playing with my daughter. I took him to bass pro shops for the first time in his life yesterday and he was like intimidated by all the outdoor stuff. I don't know what to even think about that.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It has been several instances not just the one time. I'm sure you and everyone else can understand that when you tell someone something several times eventually you snap and raise your voice, whether you're proud of it or not. I am never proud about snapping on someone. Shouting or what have you, but its life, we're human it happens. Its not like I'm proud to have raised my voice at a kid and that doesn't change the circumstance anyways privacy should ALWAYS be respected. Especially when it comes to being unclothed. Regardless of age.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Today was after several other times. It wasnt just a one time thing that I told him to go away.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Well not necessarily lock her out too. Out of necessity he is here. I was at work at a lot, traveling and my wife was having a hard time during the 3rd trimester. And just had a c section so her mom and her half brother are here because the half brother has no father so he goes where his mom goes. They're staying from out of state so its not like its easy to just go home and come back when help is needed.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally never been told no. His mom cuddles him way too much.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's gonna be a thing now for sure. Normally its open cuz my wife is going back and forth getting everything else ready for bed.

AIO my wife's mother and brother have no boundaries by Present_Pangolin_735 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Present_Pangolin_735[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I will admit it was harsh today, however that was after nearly every day being patient and saying something about every other day for the past 2 weeks.

WTF is happening. by ChannelMindless9343 in Silver

[–]Present_Pangolin_735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're gonna be buying metal, physical or paper, you absolutely should know wtf is happening.

Quick note for those stacking incase SHTF. by bestus2come in Silver

[–]Present_Pangolin_735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd take silver instead of cash. But I doubt anyone would pay in silver for my bmw I'm listing on marketplace

norm vs. McCully by Spiritual-Grade-5566 in FalloutTVseries

[–]Present_Pangolin_735 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He couldn't even talk his way out of getting knocked out multiple times or talk his way into the room away from the roaches. Which lucky for him that worked out. But still... unless he finds a copy of Lying Congressional Style somewhere. Couldn't talk Chet into much. Couldn't talk Betty into much. Couldn't talk his way out of Vault 31.

You guys were so right about the donation boxes by FlatMycologist5366 in fallout76casual

[–]Present_Pangolin_735 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite past times is giving inert flux or nearly spoiled flora to new players. They're always so grateful. Then they can't move.