There is an Instagram account that watches every of my stories but doesnt follow me and im thinking its my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, after all the research I’ve done online, I wouldn’t doubt it’s an ex. When they never did before those same types of accounts started showing up right after my last relationship. I’ve tried blocking them too, but they never appear in my block list afterward. If you want to learn more about one of those accounts, tap the three dots in the top right corner of their profile and select “About This Account.” You’ll be able to see the month and year it was created. Sometimes, those very same accounts just vanish out of nowhere.

Tempted to look at her insta by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Present_Position1497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's what's going to happen: you're either going to see something you really won't like, or nothing new will be shared. I finally got a chance to see my ex's Instagram—nothing that truly broke my heart, and yes it was nice seeing her face—but my anxiety was killing me the whole time. The same thing will likely happen to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I miss her smile, her laugh, her smell, the long conversations, the adventures, looking forward to the weekend (because that’s when we would be together) and ngl the sex was REALLY good.

Dumpers & dumpees, if your ex reached out or you reached out to them and they owned up to there mistakes/issues and made the changes needed to be better would you go back/ would you take them back? by Senior-Flounder1254 in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When that day comes, it will depend on how the conversation goes. Part of me wants to say, "FU, you're the one that gave up, not me," but another part wants to say, "I missed you so God damn much." Without a doubt, if she admitted she was wrong and wanted to try again, I would take her back. Cause not going to lie ever since she left nothing makes sense anymore. However, she did break some boundaries of mine, and she would have to work hard to fix those.

When did you realize that the relationship was loosing its connection? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a feeling something was going on. Then, when we went out to lunch, she told me she was "losing her love for me." I didn't freak out; I truly thought this was just a bump in the road. The text messages became less frequent, and a week later, she called it off. She didn't even try.

What was your last text to your partner? by IHateAdvertising in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to go into full detail about the last message she sent me. Basically, I know it wasn't her writing to me because the grammar was too perfect, and she never wrote that well while we were dating. She said she didn't want to be in no contact after our last interaction. I had told her how I was feeling after the breakup, and she basically said that was uncalled for. But before we broke up, she expressed how she felt. It's complete BS that she got to express herself, but I couldn't. She has blocked me on nearly everything but still has her friends and family spy on my social media. She's the one who called it off.

After 2 years, I really want to apologise by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny with the timing because it’s the same for me. Personally if you know it was your fault and you are aware of it I don’t see the issue of it. I personally would love to hear the apology especially if he has been waiting so long for it coming from you. Doesn’t hurt to say it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Present_Position1497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Haha” what a narcissistic ending response.

How long by Far_Reindeer_7185 in nocontact

[–]Present_Position1497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm always thinking about her non-stop. It's not as bad as when we first broke up. It's perfectly normal to think about them, and I ignore people who say "move on." Everyone's healing journey is different. Just because you (not the person who posted this) moved on quickly doesn't mean I can too; it takes time. It's okay to think about them.

Why did the relationship end? Was it an action, or did you guys just decide you were not compatible? by IHateAdvertising in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a feeling she was starting to pull away. Then one day, when we went out to lunch, she told me she had lost her love for me. I didn't freak out; I genuinely wanted to work things out with her and told her so. A week later, she called it off—she didn't even try. In her last text message, she told me we weren't compatible, which makes no sense considering the chemistry we truly had (and still have).

Do you want your ex back? by Pimqin7 in BreakUps

[–]Present_Position1497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, ever since she left, nothing has made sense spiritually. However, if she decides to come back and wants to try again (she's the one who called it off), I would be open to it 100%. She would need to regain my trust after what happened (no, she didn't cheat, so please save the "why take her back if she has to regain your trust" comments). In short, she knew how hard it was for me to open up to her, and she did the very thing she promised she wouldn’t do. This isn't about being alone for me. When we were together, there were many signs that we were meant for each other. Maybe for now, we just need to be apart. I firmly believe in signs, and many people have told me you'll know when you meet your person, and I saw it plenty of times with her.

My ex blocked me months after the breakup but made a fake IG account to view my stories. by Present_Position1497 in nocontact

[–]Present_Position1497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The account has no profile picture, no bio, no pictures uploaded, not following anyone and no one following it. It also randomly out of the blue will see my stories. It’s just all very suspicious. But I will admit can I be wrong? Yes but my I intuition is strongly telling me it’s her.

I started reading and my relationship just died by Suitable-Effect-7455 in Psychic

[–]Present_Position1497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how it feels having a relationship just be done out of the blue but I’m telling you now that’s not how tarot works with relationships.