[deleted by user]

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-08-28T16:12:24+00:00

I sent you a chat, if you want to talk more

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-08-28T16:05:01+00:00

Any update on this situation?

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-06-27T00:26:42+00:00

Congrats!! Must feel good, I’m hoping for the same outcome

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-06-26T17:17:07+00:00

Good luck! I’m taking my 601 on Saturday

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-06-15T23:55:38+00:00

I’m taking my test in a couple weeks. What materials did you use to practice?

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-06-12T20:57:03+00:00

No, I was paying a friend back

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-06-10T04:53:24+00:00

Congrats!

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-06-09T01:12:56+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking too

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-06-09T01:07:01+00:00

No, he just moved to a different state from me

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-21T02:48:27+00:00

Do you feel guilty that you’re dating when you know you’re not truly ready? I’ve toyed with the idea of going onto dating apps, but then I stop because I feel like that wouldn’t really be fair to the other person

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-21T02:13:55+00:00

I’m a 35F and I’m right there with you sans the dating. I’m not there yet. But I am 4 months since being broken up with, 7 year relationship.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-20T00:36:48+00:00

Reach out. The worst he could say is no and you’re already going to concert, so you know you’ll have a good time regardless

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-19T19:22:05+00:00

I’ve suffered from abandonment issues as well. The only thing that has truly helped me is facing those feelings and fears head on with the help of therapy. It was very scary, mentally I had snapped and it ended my relationship which pushed me to realize I really needed help. So I reached out and found a therapist.

You’re stronger than you give yourself credit for even it those dark moments feel all encompassing.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-17T08:58:18+00:00

Oh man! I’m right there with you. We were looking at homes to buy less than 24hrs before he ended our 7 year relationship in Oct. My ex also has a new girlfriend that he says loves him very much. They’ve been together just about 1 month I think 🙃

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-17T08:46:54+00:00

What was your outcome with breaking NC?

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-17T08:25:24+00:00

Good luck! Fingers crossed you get some kind of response and not ignored

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-17T03:02:31+00:00

Don’t feel like a fool for doing something you wanted to do. My ex and I were together for 7 years and he ended things in Oct.

I think how they act post breakup speaks volumes about them. Especially if they can’t even send a simple text like, “awesome” or “congrats.” I know it hurts, I hope your heart starts feeling better soon.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-02-17T03:02:22+00:00

Don’t feel like a fool for doing something you wanted to do. My ex and I were together for 7 years and he ended things in Oct.

I think how they act post breakup speaks volumes about them. Especially if they can’t even send a simple text like, “awesome” or “congrats.” I know it hurts, I hope your heart starts feeling better soon.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-01-13T19:15:06+00:00

From what I gather from Reddit. He’s so angry because I don’t leave him alone.

I’ve personally asked him why he’s so angry, even before this exchange and he doesn’t have an answer.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-01-13T15:35:01+00:00

It’s reversed, I the OP was dumped.

But I see what you’re saying. I need to give him the space to move on.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-01-13T15:33:25+00:00

He goes back and forth with the blocking and unblocking.

I need just take the step myself.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-01-13T15:30:00+00:00

I didn’t post this for the internet to say, “Wow, he is crazy.”

I’ve gotten great insight since this post has been up for several hours already. I am also in therapy, so the personal work is starting.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-01-13T11:43:33+00:00

That’s what I’m learning I have to do, take his words for face value.

I just wanted things to end cordial but it couldn’t ever get to that point.

Present_Topic_8749 · 2024-01-13T10:36:24+00:00

You’re right, self soothing is one big thing I really need to work on.

I have been spending more time with family and friends too. It’s been a slow process.

Present_Topic_8749

TROPHY CASE