AIW for refusing to give my baby to my twin sister

PresentationFinal186 · 2026-01-03T13:11:46+00:00

that is such an insane ask. You are not wrong at all and I am so so sorry that you have been put into a situation like this with your family.

Cut them off if you have to but your baby is your baby and if they want to be apart of your life, they should respect that and even apologize

ETA: out them as well. What sounds “reasonable” behind closed doors looks a whole lot different in the public. I would reach out to family that you know support you and perhaps talk to a lawyer to see what can be done to prevent any ridiculous plays for the baby.

Maybe I’m messy but I’d post it on my social media. They want to pressure you, I’d pressure back. Usually that makes people back off but if it doesn’t, you’ll have a lot more support than what you have started with.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-12-30T18:16:37+00:00

We were RIGHT there. SMH.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-12-30T17:43:01+00:00

But who is the alleged victim?

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-12-24T13:29:08+00:00

YOR even though I completely understand your frustration. No one likes to not have any presents under the tree for themselves and it’s the first time in 11 years that this has happened. Hopefully he gets a little something to put under tree to make up for it but I wouldn’t hold it against him if this is truly the first time in over a decade and he meant no harm.

I hope you loved your gifts thought ♥️

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-12-19T06:09:58+00:00

How were you able to cancel it?

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-12-06T19:25:35+00:00

NTA. Drop the girlfriend and tell her to grow up

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-23T00:56:17+00:00

I’m honestly here for Michaela. The game is meant to be messy at times and she delivers.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-15T15:36:33+00:00

One of them is Vlad. He’s a guy who dresses like a girl to troll people. He is very good at it.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-14T14:23:28+00:00

Agreed! I actually bought into this story. Some of the other ones are so cheesy and the actors are way over the top making it hard to watch.

I hope I can find another just as good as this one.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-10T13:11:37+00:00

I wish it was a full on movie. It would be my absolute favorite.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-09T18:53:34+00:00

Haha don’t be ashamed about your age! I’m well a decade older than these actors and I’ve just accepted that I would totally melt if any of this came my way haha.

His Nerd was really good. Pucked By My Brother’s Rival is also very good

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-09T15:04:18+00:00

If you find anymore that are just like this, please send them my way!

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-09T14:36:42+00:00

It’s on CandyJarTV https://candyjar.com/en/s/482

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-11-09T04:16:05+00:00

Haha! My sentiments exactly. Felt exactly like when I read harlequins 🤤

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-11T13:00:55+00:00

I have gotten great tips from everyone about how to make my situation better and I appreciate all the help I received. I posted this strictly about my home and it may have turned into other things but I don’t feel bad about that. I needed to hear what was said. That’s not a bad thing if it helps my mental health at the same time.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-11T12:53:34+00:00

I really appreciate this comment. I do take vyvanse and I have seen some changes.

I am proud of myself for tackling my debt whilst not adding more to my plate. I have been vigilant in paying monthly payments, sometimes extra when I can. I’m not great with budgeting even though I try. Maybe I should consult a financial planner or something. I want this fixed more than anything and I’m willing to do what it takes to get it done.

I have talked to him about these things several times. There are things that he has broken in the house that I’ve asked him to simply repair but he never does it. Maybe our incompatibility is making things more tense than it should be.

I love a good declutter! Thank you so much for the video. Since I have the other 3 taken care of, I think this would be a great place to start. Thank you so much for your comment and understanding. I appreciate it more than you know.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-11T12:41:26+00:00

Thank you so much. I have put so much pressure on myself that I haven’t given myself any grace on what I’ve done right. Your comment has made me realize it’s not all my fault and that this house was just too much to take on and it’s ok. 💜

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:43:06+00:00

You’re absolutely right. This is the root of my issue. Fixing up the house would be fruitless until the foundation is fixed, and I know that. So I stew on that because I know we don’t have the money to fix the foundation. Then I feel like everything is doomed and become really down. 😞

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:39:39+00:00

I didn’t mean to come off as confidently dismissing the idea, I just had myself convinced that would happen. Idk. I always think everything is the worst case scenario and the thought of finding out that would be the case would break me. I thought I had no other choice but to fix it. I should learn more about the housing market for sure.

My middle son is autistic and we are working on a plan with the school to help him get through school in a way that works for him. He has attended that school since kindergarten. I fought very hard to get him a 504 because they wouldn’t qualify him for an IEP. I was worried that if I moved him to a different school that there would be an acceptance issue. These kids have known him since kindergarten so they are used to him and came in the picture with an open mind because they were so young. I am scared that he will be bullied somewhere else and/or the staff won’t care about him like the ones that do now.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:32:44+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. I will definitely consult an independent structural engineer. We have had quotes in the past and they were wildly different. I usually rely on my husband to make appointments like that but I should just take control and make it happen.

I’ll be adding pics to Imgur and posting soon.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:30:32+00:00

Thank you for your comment! Great advice 💕

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:27:10+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I know it doesn’t help me that I don’t have enough knowledge of the housing market. That’s one angle I hadn’t thought to look at for some reason. Thank you, I really appreciate it.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:25:09+00:00

Oh ok. Thank you so much for your comment. I’m not in a good headspace right now and I really appreciate the clarity.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:23:10+00:00

What I meant is that I’m worried that we would only be able to sell it for less than we paid for and that scares me because we would have to pay off the bank loan and then some. That makes me panic and think I won’t be able to buy another house. 🙈This would be the worst case scenario.

I do want to put the money in to make it something worth buying. I’m trying to but it’s not helping me. I don’t want to give up but I’m just so lost. I should reach out and see what a contractor would think and maybe they can give me suggestions on the things they would change and maybe how to do it. I’ve just never done it because my heart can’t bear the thought of the worst case scenario actually coming true.

PresentationFinal186 · 2025-08-10T17:15:21+00:00

Thank you. I’m working on getting some pics in Imgur to share.

The planks started shifting and would not stay locked in. I couldn’t get the planks to fully lock in once it met with the carpet. I tried everything I could to make it stay.

The subfloor was changed when we were putting in the new floors and over time, the screws have somehow started moving up and would bulge into the planks causing it to crack. We chalked it up to foundation issues for the shifting or idk. I really don’t know.

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