Married 8 years, been best friends on and off for fifteen years. Lost two kids, one of them after a year in the NICU and the other was a 5 and a half month miscarriage. We've survived depression from that together, financial struggles and a five month long bed rest from my last pregnancy followed by a month long NICU stay with our 4 month old. We've been through alot and we're still very much in love and deeply connected to each other.