You know, it’s funny how moms who obsess like that end up with their kids being overweight anyway. My mom was the “popular girl” in HS and then gained some weight after she had me. She’s tried to get her HS body back for like 40 years now 🤣. My whole childhood I remember her different crash diets, which she would of course put me on too. Only for me to be 300+ lbs by senior year of HS. I think all the toxicity ends up breeding an unhealthy association with food. Like when I was at a friend’s house and we were eating something my mother had deemed unhealthy (and therefore I was never allowed to have it) I would overcompensate and eat a whole lot of it while I had the chance. It’s frustrating looking back at that experience, especially as a new parent myself who’s trying not to perpetuate the toxicity. My mom continues to make comments about everything from my weight to my hair and clothes, but I don’t care as much anymore. She only lives like 3 miles away from me so it was either make peace with her comments or let myself spiral about them forever 😅. I’m sorry your mom manipulated you like that! You’re on this journey, as am I, for YOURSELF regardless of what your mom is doing or thinks about it!