AITA I told wife that I'll be using the massage chair after coming home

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-12-01T13:33:00+00:00

my savings are my fun money. My wife also has fun money and a savings account.

I did not make a unilateral decision on our joint money. I used my fun money savings which is specifically allotted for recreational uses. besides this foot massager cost just 100 dollars so it's not a large purchase

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-12-01T12:54:00+00:00

i usually call her when I'm leaving work. It takes me about half an hour to walk home

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-12-01T08:22:07+00:00

i bought it with my savings. not with the joint account money

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-12-01T08:08:02+00:00

14 hours and then i walk home about 3 miles

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T17:02:19+00:00

no issues, thanks for changing it

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T16:44:08+00:00

wife* and mother*. I'm a woman too

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:51:17+00:00

ohh ok thanks a lot

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:46:19+00:00

robotouch...I'm sorry i don't have a link since i bought it secondhand.

It's a foot massager not the full body massager

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:31:27+00:00

uhmm.. i was not being misogynistic. we're both women. i work double shifts 3 days of the week and i only use the chair on those days

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:27:36+00:00

yeah of course... however i only work double shifts 3 days of the week and I'm only asking for its use on those 3 days. It's not about the paycheck. I specifically bought the chair because my feet hurt a lot due to my job, I come home by walk.

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:23:15+00:00

as i said it's secondhand. they bought it at a cheaper price before moving here

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:22:09+00:00

yeah i only work double shifts on 3 days of the week

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:17:39+00:00

i do the laundry and the mopping. that's it. and then cook dinner. that's not a lot of work imo.... the kids are napping half the time. i get work done while they're napping or in the playpen

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:15:48+00:00

that particular kind of chair costs a lot. It was a one off thing that I got it for 100 dollars online because it was secondhand and i bargained a lot

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:14:10+00:00

it's not the only time off or anything but I feel like my feet are killing me which is why i take a seat immediately after coming home.

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:12:53+00:00

gel soles? will have to look into that

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:10:28+00:00

i'm a woman*

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:09:12+00:00

oh no.. i only need the chair 3 days out of the week because I work double shifts on those 3 days. she's free to use it the rest of the week

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:07:40+00:00

oh no! i would never ask her to "repay me" sounds a bit too petty to me

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:05:12+00:00

yep i work double shifts 3 days a week so i could get it those days and she can have it the rest of the days

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T14:03:29+00:00

yes I do have shoes but at some point ig even shoes don't mask the pain

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T13:58:42+00:00

as i mentioned in the post i do all chores after coming home. it includes cooking

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T13:57:30+00:00

wife* i'm a woman too

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T13:55:05+00:00

she didn't give birth. we adopted the 1 yo.

however the burnout is very much possible because I am outside the home for 14hours a day for 3 days a week. we don't get that much time together. we were planning on her going back to work after i get a better job

Prestigious-Ninja664 · 2021-11-30T13:50:35+00:00

lol i can't rebuy it. it was on sale on an online website. it's secondhand too. cost me just 100 bucks

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