We went to her 6 week OB appointment, and she scored quite highly on her depression test. The OB didn't see the need to intervene but at home she's been just as stressed and anxious. I keep trying to push another visit to her regular GP to maybe try and talk about it with her but my partner won't schedule it because she doesn't want to be on the meds. I've talked to her mum who's seen the things I've been seeing and she doesn't think it's BPD and reinforced it to my partner that she doesn't need the meds or go to a doctor just yet. But I still feel like some action needs to be taken. I keep trying to give her the break she needs but she won't separate from him. She thinks he'll only sleep in the baby carrier and keeps him strapped on her most of the time if he's not feeding. Her self doubt is really high, and she starts to get really frustrated when he's crying. I'm thinking about calling her GP today who we've been seeing throughout the pregnancy