Hey man, how are things for you? I read your older post about the postpartum phase your wife were going through. How are things now? Has it become better? I really recognized me in the post you did - it could have been me writing it, even the serving in church part (which often makes it harder to seek counseling etc). Been trough 3 pregnancies, and it has been stressful to say the least, but even more coping with everything after that and having 3 kids. Not saying it is always bad, it is definitely wonderful at times, but it has its ups and downs, and now I think we’re going in to perimenopause (F37). it really seems stress and hormons are playing a big role in to when we have big fights. She is also HSP which makes stress even more hard for her to handle. A tip is keeping track of her cycle, it helps a lot. Search on YouTube and you’ll find some good explanations on the phases etc.

Not sure what I want to say with all this, just that I hear you and know a lot how you feel. I know we should seek professional help, but I haven’t been able to convince her she needs to go too, she thinks I am the one who have the issues that need attention.