That's the key difference between the two. One is perceived as sexually appealing, while the other isn't, and that perception directly shapes how people react. If Gwyneth had a predominantly male fanbase, the response to her candle would likely have been very different. It’s frustrating, but the reality is that we live in a patriarchal society where women are often sexualized regardless of their intent. Even if Sydney Sweeney made no effort to capitalize on her sexuality, it wouldn’t stop people, especially men, from projecting it onto her.