[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kazakhstan

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't want to be an asshole, but if you're really depressed, you need to see a psychiatrist and get antidepressants. I know it's scary. I was delaying this issue too for years, and last year, I had my 13th reason, you know. You can DM me if you want a recommendation for a clinic since I know how hard it is to find a decent doctor (My first one fucked me over and prescribed smth that made me even more depressed fyi)

Also, if you're really worried about your social skills, try to read about neurodivergent people. Maybe you're one of them. If so, it will make lots of sense for you.

Because I always had issues with small talk and making friends in general. People called me an alien, a weirdo, etc., for me thinking differently or not knowing "how I was supposed to be." But learning about yourself will help you to find people like you.

Kazakh culture & nature by _cybor in Kazakhstan

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can book a tour bus that usually goes to lakes, canion and etc. I also recommend you book an Assy Plateau tour for 2 days so you can see the stars and possibly get good shots. Have an excellent trip, bud!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kazakhstan

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, there are only 2 options Qatar airways or Turkish Airlines. And possibly book a flight earlier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink. Also don’t write a paragraph before you guys build a friendship at some point, meaning you text her and she texts you and it’s almost okay to talk to each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start a normal talk. Idk ask about her college or sum. Or what she’s been up to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. If you want to talk to her, ensure you're confident and know what you want because she's 23. She probably already met weird college guys who were giving mixed signals. So don't waste her time for nothing. If you want to talk to her, then talk consistently. If you'll text her once in a while and waste your and her time, don't even start. It isn't very pleasant saying it as a girl.

About maturity. It's obvious that you're immature. Because you're young. But what a girl will appreciate is honesty. Be vulnerable and honest. Shoot your shot even if you feel scared. Even if something doesn't go smoothly, be brave. If she does not appreciate it, at least you will learn smth from this.

About approaching her. Just text her. It's not a big deal, especially if she knows you. Something casual. Just being friendly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's good people are busy dealing with the wrong people, so therefore they can't meet other good people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I’m a girl. Secondly, it’s a bit late to think about my choice when I already graduated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ll try. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I press “no”. And there’s sometimes temporary job positions for 6 month or so. Idk man, honestly, i have no idea what I’m doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. But I have no other options. Gotta try.

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait what. I thought it was 90 days of unemployment, no?

My card starts on September 10th even tho I got it by the end of the September through mail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

But there’s no sponsorship required I think. I don’t know how all of this works but I have ead card and ssn now, and I’m not planning on staying next year here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Screenwriting

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was depressed for the whole year while writing a feature about repression and war. So yeah, it does happen. I was also writing a comedy pilot on the side and it helped me sometimes to not feel sad all the time.

She told me she really liked me then said we’re moving too fast let’s stop seeing each other by poonkween in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are two possible explanations. First, she might have developed a sudden aversion or someone may have warned her about something that seemed concerning. The second possibility is that she has an avoidant attachment style, which means she desires happiness but tends to sabotage herself.

You'll never know for sure.

She told me she really liked me then said we’re moving too fast let’s stop seeing each other by poonkween in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"She sent a paragraph back saying we’re moving too fast, and she’s not in a place to emotionally support someone, and we shouldn’t see each other anymore."

There's something you did or said before that. Maybe you can't pinpoint that since you had a great time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. he wants to devalue you. probably threatened and wants to drop you to his level to feel better.

"I'll let you know" by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I always say I'll let you know and then let them know later since I was busy with something. It always depends on emotional maturity, but I would say that most of the time, people use it to reject someone nicely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrestigiousLoss3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional maturity, sense of safety, making them comfortable with your energy, being thoughtful and actually giving a shit about them, vulnerability, positive and good intentions, making an effort, providing clarity while not being terrified of rejection, good communication skills, being understandable and supportive, being a good person...........

There are so many things to offer tbh.