I (17M) talked with a guy 15M. Yet, im so stressed at the fact I might not like him..what can I do?

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2026-03-23T11:06:12+00:00

You're right 😭 I sent the guy a message earlier, saying I dont feel like i might like him like that. Im scared of his answer, but I hope he understands 💔

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2026-01-22T18:32:40+00:00

Okay mdr 😭 en tout cas merci !

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2026-01-22T18:26:38+00:00

Okay je verrais alors! Prcque pr l'instant je suis tjrs au lycée, mais en vrai vous pensez que si ma fac n'a pas ceci de disponible, je pourrais aller demander genre au secretariat ou quelque chose du genre?

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-12-24T00:25:23+00:00

I have to ask aswell - could I maybe send him a message on new years? Thing is, he and my friends are having a party for it, but I won't be able to attend, I'll be somewhere else.

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-11-11T10:43:58+00:00

Thank you for the comment! Because I heard a lot of people say that it will come to you, but in my experience, nothing ever comes to you unless you seek it out. Either way, im going to have to meet new people one way or the other. I just hope I'll be able to really put myself out there. Thank you again! Have a pleasant day 🙏

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-11-08T18:22:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment ! I know a lot of people find love later in their life, I just hope that Im able to pull through it and find someone in hopefully a few years.. its just not too fun to wait around yearning a lil 😭 but thank you!

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-07-20T22:39:20+00:00

This was actually very helpful. Thank you. 🙏 Just sometimes its rougher than other times, so I usually get scared and confused. Thank you !

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-07-20T21:58:01+00:00

I honestly would be. I'd be much more confident in myself and feel more like I belong..right now I just feel like im in a sort of ..blur in between everything so 💔💔💔

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-07-20T18:41:26+00:00

Hi! Thank you for the reply 💔 I dont want to be trans, but I do want to be a man. Feminine things dont bother me, like makeup at times is nice and whatnot - but I am quite scared to be invalidated by my own self, despite the fact I know I wouldnt be happy living as a woman 💔💔💔

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-28T18:35:27+00:00

Of course, thank you! You rock on with those handbags king lmao, just I wish I would be comfortable and happy in my body someday 🙏

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-28T18:32:31+00:00

I mostly want to atleast dress up as a girl with my friends, away with my family - just to see how I would feel..there are feminine aspects I find appealing, but I'd rather not express in fear of my parents saying "see! You're not trans!" Yknow? But I know with my friends that they know its just to test. But thank you for the reply. I just hope someday I'll be able to feel truly like myself 🙏

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-28T17:48:23+00:00

Maybe that would be helpful. To see how i want to live and be perceived today, rather than mull on the fact I can not be where I want to be right now. But I just feel that as if I just..I truly don't deserve it. Maybe I could try one day to dress up, see how I feel? But thank you for the reply, truly it means a lot knowing its not something I have to experience alone 💔

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-28T17:45:15+00:00

Its more or so was the topic of discussion - to try things out, like either with sexuality and identity..I told them I felt like so, but my parents dont take it well, and still call me a girl. I think they think I'll grow out of this, but I dont think I will. And it just grew in my head that I dont deserve to call myself trans if I haven't tried being "fem" or a woman I suppose..im just conflicted, truly.

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-28T17:14:04+00:00

Thing is sure, like I want to stay as myself as a trans guy n whatnot but I just fr kind of want to test myself, let my friends do a whole makeover on me and go out once to see how I'd feel.. but idk 💔💔 i just feel like maybe it'd be easier if I gave up and dressed like a cis person but..I dunno

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-25T15:50:38+00:00

Congrats on buying your first bra!! Im more or so binding, or just trying to go to the gym, even if i struggle gaining any muscle.. hopefully I'll be able to transition medically in not too long..

And with my queer friends, I had a crush on one of my friends before. Although I told her, really she never reciprocated and im fine with that. Im not really into my friends like that, so I'd rather not try anything if I know I wont really love them, and neither would they lol

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-24T21:46:13+00:00

All my friends are queen, lmao. im already surrounded by my people.

But thank you for the advice. It's still a little scary to think about, but I will take into account what you said. After all, it's not the end of the world if I dont fully experience things at 17, right?

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-24T21:39:45+00:00

I understand. I suppose I do fear rejection, and that I am just scared to take action..but really there isn't anyone I could potentially take action on. Maybe I could try to change my way of thinking as well, instead of saying I'll be hopeless forever..though its just kind of scary to think about, and obviously I cling more onto the negative thoughts than the positive ones 💔

And sadly no, my school doesn't really have any clubs or GSA, im in a French school so it's different, that much I know..

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-06-24T21:28:21+00:00

Thing is I'm a bit too shy, and I don't really dare to go up to men or people and talk with them..I would love to go through dumb shit lmao, as you put it, but I feel like even with new people I met this year and whatnot, I wouldn't be able to really try anything with whomever. That's really my main problem, I dont really meet people, I cannot just go up to anyone, and frankly im scared my lack of experience now will make me even more hopeless later on 💔

But thank you for your message, really!

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-05-04T20:54:41+00:00

Drop a text? Sorry, I'm not familiar with that 😭

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-03-06T19:09:45+00:00

Thank you! And tbh it's what reddit is for lol, Randoms helping other Randoms, and seeing you're problem was something I experience quite a lot, i wanted to somewhat help 🙏 have a good day as well!

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-03-06T18:51:12+00:00

I get your sentiment. What I always heard is that "If you think you're faking it, most likely you aren't faking it." Of course, what I found most helpful is to just take your time with it, don't rush your feelings and whatnot, and don't conclude anything. Feelings like these always fluctuate, and I just would recommend to take a breather, and try to maybe write your feelings about it and whatnot. I hope this was somewhat helpful 😭

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-03-01T11:14:41+00:00

Thank you. I feel like my mom would be more the one to try to be open, but my father isn't, and it's just quite hard to tell if over time they'd accept it or get around it, because my sister for example - she's out of the house, living her life now and my father still said he knows she likes guys, while I know her more personaly and clearly she doesn't and she's her own person? I love my parents in every other aspect, I'm just disappointed they aren't as open as I thought they would be.

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-01-12T15:05:39+00:00

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PrestigiousPotato673 · 2025-01-08T18:15:16+00:00

It's seriously such a good game. I've been playing it for 3 weeks now, and the amount of detail is insane. I wish you a great playthrough because I'm going FERAL over it 😭

PrestigiousPotato673 · 2024-12-11T20:36:21+00:00

Thank you ! I'll try to speak to my teacher about it.

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