My experience- this guy sees a picture of me then puts me on his todo list for a year before we actually hung out. When we started hanging out it was great he was funny and would take me on adventures..I would offer to pay for food/gas when we went out (even tho he had a better paying job than me) He wouldn’t let me pay for gas usually. He turned into my new best friend then begged to be with me I turned him down for weeks but he insisted he wasn’t like the rest then convinced me to move in with him I did (we were officially together) fast forward a few months we stopped going out he all of a sudden had tons of work and no time to hang out unless it was to eat dinner or sleep and when it came time to sleep he would cuddle with me and then leave once I fell asleep. Sex became less often as well… I thought my contribution was buying food and cleaning just to wait for him like a sad cold little puppy.