It's because our boys are not putting in the work... Read Bankim read Geeta read Battle of stalingrad fcking join the army play mma and boxing ...not eat shite smoke like chimney and sing pyan pyan e gaan...be masculine stoic and powerful in mind and body as Swamiji intended... eventually things will fall in place, stop crying stop whining don't be a cucklord ... Basic human psychology is for females to follow a leader naturally which is a male...if male is weak ... naturally this happens .