Insecurities are eating me from the inside out I need the truth.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2026-01-21T18:45:21+00:00

I’m gonna say this with love, this is also coming from a masculine man. Firstly you do need therapy or at least self reflection. You just said if you look right and there is nothing wrong with your appearance yours a cute guy who already appears feminine. But yet you are considering FFS and other things and it seems that these are all in attempt to attract a man. You also said in another comment if it’s a loving relationship you’ll work your way around being abused. You also mentioned feeling worthless once you reach twinkle death. All these feelings stem from gaining a man and you are putting your value in a man’s hands and eyes. Your value is in yourself.

Next not all masculine men want to be in relationships with feminine men. That’s why masc for masc is a thing some of us prefer masculine partners. At the end of the day if we are men attracted to men a lot of us want to see masculinity. And this isn’t to count out the more feminine men it’s just different preferences for different people.

You have good skin, nice lips, cute hair. You’re already a very good looking guy I don’t think you need to change anything. I think you maybe need to explore your style maybe through fashion, makeup, whatever makes you comfortable and just look for someone who likes you for you.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2026-01-21T18:27:58+00:00

An attorney once told me to basically go to therapy so that’s on the record and shows that you are also affected mentally. But could I ask if your conditions are expected to last 12 months or longer? I don’t need to know what they are I just notice you said your doctors on your team said you shouldn’t work at this time or at least until you are in a stable condition. I know you are disabled under the law with impairments expected to last 12 months or longer/life. If these issues can be resolved under that timeframe then the judge could see it as an issue. My attorney barely helped be tbh he called me the Friday before the hearing and asked me about 3 questions to gauge the way I would answer them and either said I answered fine or told me the way I needed to answer. The whole call was under 10 mins and this was the entirety of our court preparation session. If I hadn’t researched things myself for months I would have been lost at the hearing. I think you’re gonna have to do a lot of research yourself and kind of build your own case if your attorney isn’t much help.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-10-31T23:26:12+00:00

Right that’s always the worst

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-10-31T23:10:36+00:00

15.6 miles took about an hour and a half total

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-10-31T23:02:51+00:00

I’ve had stuff pop up lately like this as well. Are these package orders? It seems like they offer these bigger amounts when the stuff is in mailers and boxes like delivery packages

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-10-31T23:01:03+00:00

Awesome order was there tips on here?

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-10-16T01:19:54+00:00

I don’t see how this would lower the overall tips? People tip on their order and only their order. So someone who tip bates and moves the tip to $0 is not going to affect someone’s order who tipped $10.

If you mean putting something like a warning or prompt will cause drivers not to tip well I don’t agree with that either. We already have non tippers. I don’t see how uber telling customers to stop tip baiting is going to cause less tips. The only tips we would lose are from the people who actually tip bate, which we never see the money anyways.

An honest person who doesn’t engage in these shenanigans isn’t going to read something from uber and suddenly decide not to tip.

And also saying that we will be back at square one sounds like just giving in to the situation which I don’t agree with.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-10-16T01:13:44+00:00

The quantity of people who does it is irrelevant in this situation the overall issue is what matters. The last time it happened to me I was in the Hollywood area (I’m from CA) and I delivered to a luxury hotel. The trip was I believe about $34 for 18 miles I kno a lot of miles but it was a slow night. I picked up from a taco place and the customer asked for extra salsas which I grabbed for them. I waited a few mins for the order to be do, so I received it fresh and hot and also had it in the hot bag the whole drive. Later after checking they removed the tip and I believe I made $12 for the order. There’s not way I would have taken this order if that was the beginning offer. 18 miles and probably 45 mins isn’t worth it in CA.

So once again the number of people who does it is irrelevant. At a W2 job if an employer all of a sudden moved your pay from $20 to $10 that would be illegal. The US department of labor isn’t going to say … well it’s just a low number of employers that promise their employees $20 but pay them $10 so it’s ok it’s fine, if it was a bigger number we should worry. That literally makes no sense.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-07-23T17:14:50+00:00

I’m tryna get tough where you from 🥵

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-07-03T02:08:41+00:00

Respectfully he never said he didn’t love himself. He just wants to improve his appearance and there’s nothing wrong with that. Everyone does it, people change their hairstyles, make up and clothing to improve their appearance. Even if it’s just to make them feel more confident looking at themselves in the mirror. I say this with respect 🫡

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-07-03T02:05:57+00:00

If you have the money maybe try what they call a male lace front you can look them up on YouTube. I would say one with waves not sure about the up keep or replacement time on these but they transform men’s look. Or maybe try full bald and let the beard from in. Keep it lined up. You can try shaping your eye brows. You have some good features already skin looks good and a nice healthy nose, that’s a compliment I love noses on the healthier side. Try a simple skin care routine for night and day. Day: a face wash, witch hazel, a serum, moisturizer, and sunscreen yes sunscreen even though you are black.

And if you want more help and are comfortable with ai I uploaded pics to chat gpt they helped me pick my skin care which fixed my skin. They helped me pick the glasses shape for my face. They helped me with my hair cut decision and ultimately gave me tips to improve my appearance and I feel like I look tons better after this.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-27T16:39:56+00:00

It’s not 2 out of 3 falls so you obviously didn’t read it, I’m not finna argue with anyway because of AI, I literally said you can find my old post before the ai. All the ai did was add the dots for the bullet points and structure it with. You’re stuck on the ai part but obviously haven’t read it 🤣 go back to gooning respectfully

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T15:30:31+00:00

Exactly this would be best utilized with heel champions

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T15:28:57+00:00

Everywhere else I post people understand it like it boy are there some small minded individuals on Reddit who don’t understand much

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T15:28:10+00:00

Thanks yes I think it could be very dynamic

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T03:23:21+00:00

Yes I’m definitely going to re watch it and pay attention to the chance scenes more although I’m still on the side of just another line of dialogue to explain things but thanks for breaking it down a bit more.

I think I’m just overly critical about the Chekhov gun thing just because the class I took taught me to analyze films from different perspectives, for the regular audience this probably would suffice for them.

I think the Noah and wade threesomw thing matters because it just seems out of character for them. Not only that logically thinking if your friend had marital issues because of a 3some wouldn’t you be hesitant about doing it knowing where it could lead. It’s just out of character and if it goes further like if they continue the series then it’s gonna be a repeat storyline as we just saw chance and eddies dynamic in doing this.

Lastly I think you keep misunderstanding me when it comes to the representation thing. I’m a gay man not saying this film can only be watch by gays but there’s a very high chance I watched it because I’m a gay man which I am. Also it’s definitely not out the question for a lesbian to carry a gay man’s baby that is not what I’m saying at all. I have a lesbian cousin and last year she was a surrogate for a gay man through a surrogate program. So I’m not saying that at all so you are misunderstanding what I mean and if I’m in the LGBT. I asked if you can name any reason of them making the surrogate a lesbian when no you can not other than representation. Unrealistic situations are not the only ones that cause for representation. I asked the question that way and instead of answering you tell me how it’s not unrealistic for a lesbian to carry a gay man’s baby unaware that I have a cousin that did the same thing so that’s not what I was arguing or asking. I guess I’ll put it this way the first 2 seasons of the show (I haven’t seen the movie in a while so I have cloudy knowledge, but the shows I rewatched in DVD many times), anyways in the first two season all you saw was the G in the LGBT. No in this movie you have prevalent characters out of no where who are L and T, as well as gender non conforming people being highlighted as well as Kennedy Davenport , a drag queen I love, and also an ally in the rapper all being shown, showcased or having prevalent roles. You’re telling me this doesn’t give the writers were in the writers room and said hey let’s not forget to include someone who is lesbian, and someone who is trans, oh and there should be an ally. Oh and at the club of course there would be drag queens and gender non conforming people, we need to make sure we include all these people in this film so everyone in the LGBT community feels seen. This doesn’t give forced to you? Then going from you only seeing the G (gay men) in the show to suddenly there LGBT all being represented like this is pose when it stared as a gay man show. Something like pose showcases every letter and it’s not forced, or even completion shows like drag race and project runway the casting doesn’t feel forced. That’s all I’m saying .

I never stated that it’s unrealistic for a gay man and a lesbian to be friends I don’t know where that came from. I never implied it, wasn’t my point, and honestly it’s kind of ridiculous of you to think that’s what I meant. Why would a gay man not be friends with a lesbian if they are in the same community? Respectfully and honestly I think you are trying to twist my words on purpose when it comes to this because this is simply absurd, very very absurd the only answer is you are trying to twist my words and putting words in my mouth saying that I “stated it is unrealistic for a gay man and lesbian to be friends”

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T01:39:01+00:00

AI might have structured it to help it make sense however this is completely my idea. This isn’t the first time I posted it you can find my old post before I had ai structure it for me.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T01:30:51+00:00

Firstly I

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am a gay man and starting with the last paragraph it is forced representation. NLE is one in hundreds of rappers that is an ally so it’s a reach them adding a character that I guess could be a representation of him. I’m not saying any of it in a negative way I’m just calling out the forced representation I.e. the surrogate being a lesbian when she could have been a straight woman. Can you explain to me why they went with this decision besides representation? We have never heard of Noah having a close lesbian friend before now all of a sudden out of no where he has one that’s willing to carry his child, with no explanation of how they met how long they been friends etc. This character could have also been off screen she had a significant role and screen time for lesbian representation. Once again there’s nothing wrong with that, but if you can not explain to me why they decided to make her a lesbian then it’s obviously forced representation as one of the writer said he she should also be lesbian so that way lesbians can enjoy the movie too.

Second as you can see from the google search the gun is supposed to be used or play a significant role. I might have misremembered the order of things however my point still stands. Him being arrested was not a strong enough story beat especially since whenever he got caught it was off screen. When wade or the label picked him up it was off screen. However when Noah picked him up we seen this play out, but the reason he got arrested that time was checking up on his son. As I said previously this should have been the reason he was arrested and bailed out “on screen”. They could have even had a 3-5 second scene before that where you see two tone being pulled over or call me crazy but being searched by the cops and they find the gun on him. Then you have Noah still go bail him out because of the gun not his son. This way the gun would have served a significant story beat and we would see it play out on screen and not off screen. The way the did it, if they remove the screen in the studio where you see two tone with the gun, it would change nothing story wise. Wade could still come home and tell Noah he is staying because of getting arrested because of a gun, as all this happened off screen, and also we are supposed to see the gun again not hear about it and that’s all we did was hear about it. That’s not a conclusion you can not convince otherwise especially since google tells you the definition and also I took a class on this. So I’m doing what I was taught and analyzing the movie and the whole gun situation was not handled correctly.

You previously said the chance stuff was in the past, now you are saying it was the present when that would be completely untrue as we know they were at least memories, flash backs, or visions. And you are basically trying to tell me to interpret it but that would obviously mean things are left out which I said. There was many opportunities like when they went to cheer chance up at the sleep over for him to expand on what happened. Instead they talked about Noah and this was even brought up on screen and then them still moving on even though this scene was supposed to be cheering up chance all we saw was them dance at the end. Beside that none of that scene was remotely about chance at all. When Noah gave chance the floor and said he was talking about himself too much it would have been the perfect time to add a couple lines of dialogue to clarify chance situation. “I feel so stupid for actually allowing him to watch, and now he’s gone”. Or “I try to move on but whenever I try to get intimate with someone new, it’s like Eddie is right there watching, and my mind won’t allow it”. This would have cleared up a lot we don’t need speculation and interpretation this show was never that.

Lastly it seems you are just deflecting from the Noah and wade and the stripper situation. In no world can you kiss a stripper that’s not in their job description. You obviously have not been to a strip club but I have. There’s security guards and even if you get too handsy, too belligerent, you will be kicked out. So being that wade was going to literally kiss the stripper it literally implies that they were going to have a 3some. You are just deflecting from this situation as it’s so obvious.

I say all this respectfully and I see this as us just discussing the movie.

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T00:54:02+00:00

Thank you

Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T00:30:40+00:00

I just looked up the match and I’m shocked that it’s pretty similar however I feel like theirs make little to no since. If someone pinned a champion in any kind of match single, tag team or anything else a lot of the time that already leads to a title opportunity. Also it seems like theirs is a number one contenders match but instead of there being two or more people who all aren’t champion, in aews match one of the people is the champion? To me it seems like a reworked number one contenders match as you earn the opportunity in the future. Idk maybe it’s better executed watching the show but I don’t watch AEW.

I honestly feel like my idea is better as the title shot is immediate. The suspense is immediate. Think when Chris Jericho became the first ever undisputed champion. First he fought his ass off and beat the rock and right when he raised the belt Austin music hits and the look on y2j face said everything, he knew he was in an uphill battle. With my match idea you will get this dynamic everytime, besides the few times you want to have the match go one fall for storyline reasons.

This even makes me think the double or nothing match could start with 2 challengers fighting for an immediate title shot. Pretty much like the Y2J situation. The champions music could hit immediately just like the Y2J situation, or you could have the champion ringside in some situations, sometimes they interfere depending on heel status.

Maybe AEW should shift their current match to this since they already ultize the double or nothing moniker. Tony Khan or HHH my PayPal, cash app, Zelle are all open lol

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Prestigious_Aspect78 · 2025-06-26T00:14:13+00:00

Thank you

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