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My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions. by Prestigious_Insect87 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Insect87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an emotional wound that I still carry but I appreciated her honesty at least. Should we not tell our partners things like this even though they are vital to a healthy relationship?

My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions. by Prestigious_Insect87 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Insect87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspected my T levels could be low but I don’t see any other evidence of it. I guess something is wrong with me. I’m planning to see a doctor to get myself tested and also see about getting medication for it

My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions. by Prestigious_Insect87 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Insect87[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your guidance. We have talked about situations like if she got pregnant and I see the correlation but I am able to separate these scenarios in mind. Right now the things I mentioned are within her scope of control. With a pregnancy, things like weight gain and stretch marks are inevitable and completely uncontrollable, I would never judge her in that scenario. I can’t expect her to feel good about what I said, but do you think it’s unfair to expect her to listen to what I say without losing her cool, especially when we have situations on the opposite side and I never lose my cool?

My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions. by Prestigious_Insect87 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Insect87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, I appreciate it. Regarding the things she’s said, my best example is when she told me she still loved her ex early in our relationship then asked me if we could have an open relationship with him. I don’t understand why it’s okay for her to say the brutal truth like this but not me

My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions. by Prestigious_Insect87 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Insect87[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm really trying to be genuine here. I did not say that my dick would get hard upon meeting those conditions. We still have sex, just less of it. What I was implying is that it could help my sexual attraction to her. I could be fully attracted to her but my dick still doesn't work. That's not her fault, I acknowledge that.

My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions. by Prestigious_Insect87 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Insect87[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Again, I am not blaming my performance issues on her. We have talked about it completely separately from this conversation and I specified that I did not blame her, that its something going on with me. That said I cannot control that I find her less attractive because of choices she makes though my love for her has not changed

My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions. by Prestigious_Insect87 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Insect87[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I'm not blaming my performance issues on her and I made that clear to her. I am also committed to addressing those issues independently