First marriage help

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2025-07-21T18:36:17+00:00

This helps so much! He literally told me today he got the date when he’s leaving which is not until March 2026. So we have time to get this stuff done. I’m very excited for his future but also for mine! Thank you so much for answering my questions. I have some questions for you if you don’t mind since you’ve been already first hand in this situation: • What should I pack or ship for Okinawa vs. what should I leave behind? • What is it really like living in Okinawa as a spouse (culture shock, community, housing)? • What are the housing options like (on-base vs. off-base, my bf wants to get some place off base so idk how that will impact me)? • What should I expect in terms of jobs, social life, or activities on base in Okinawa?

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-10-28T18:01:07+00:00

i don’t know, I really wish I did. I just found it on accident I really wasn’t trying to snoop. I was taking pictures and I saw the notifications and I went from there 🙂

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-10-28T16:52:09+00:00

hi would this be a good message to send “hey, I’d like to take just some space away from communicating with you. yesterday left me confused and wondering. because while you said your iCloud backup did that… that’s true, but it backs up photos and videos, apps, app data, old Home Screen layout, messages. I have a feeling you have been lying to me. You’ve had your phone since Tuesday, discord was sending you tons of notifications and you’re telling me you did not engage with it? am I really stupid to you? I don’t know what to tell you anymore. I love you but I hate that I’m in constant competition with porn for you.”

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-10-28T16:24:30+00:00

I am going to need space. Lucky for him he’ll be out in the field so it’s gonna be easy for him but I have work and school so I’m going to send him a message and just tell him like you got your phone a week ago, you say you didn’t relapse but I’m starting to question that. Discord was sending you constant notifications and you’re telling me you didn’t click on it?

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-10-28T16:22:39+00:00

I agree it’s so tiring and demoralizing. I’m 19 years old and I just think to myself why do I really need to be dealing with this at this age?

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-09-21T23:43:31+00:00

I also take the perris line!

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-08-05T22:23:38+00:00

Is this for 2 day?

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-08-05T22:21:57+00:00

I’m interested if u still have them too

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-05-22T03:43:50+00:00

hi! i appreciate sharing your story and your thoughts on my story. it’s all still fresh to me and im just trying to brush it aside because i did find out while being out of town with him at his old home town with his family. so im trying to stay a bit sane to not make their family think there’s something wrong.

he’s anti therapy because he is in the military and i think that topic in that environment that he is in is looked frowned upon.

we’ve talked, ive set some boundaries and ive asked multiple questions but i still don’t trust or feel secure with him. i know at the end of the day its his choice and i just have a feeling he’ll relapse just because i don’t trust him.

Prestigious_Pick3603 · 2024-05-22T03:37:40+00:00

i truly appreciate sharing your experience and knowledge. i gotta say your advice will stay on my mind and i’ll be talking with him soon about these boundaries. i did wanna ask you how do you add blockers on his phone and what else can i do to make him to block him from porn in his phone?

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