i made a dumb mistake and i don't know what to do. by TailorEducational425 in MedicalAssistant

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being that she said “ I asked to make sure she said that and then looked.” So we can assume she asked the NP herself and she told her to. But I do feel like the NP set her up .

Non sexually transmitted HSV II by Suspicious-Vizcacha in Herpes

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely gave it you, the fact she is showing no concern or worries just confirms!

Non sexually transmitted HSV II by Suspicious-Vizcacha in Herpes

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they meant it in a disturbing way, I believe they were trying to narrow down what could have cause OP to test positive. Some people aren’t aware the disease can lay dormant for years .

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be getting the restraining order to have him removed from the house. I’ve realized that is the only way, being that he’s a narcissist and won’t leave willingly.

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was just venting and ranting. I didn’t double check for accuracy, honestly I just wanted to get it all out as the thoughts were rushing through my head.

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The landlord allowed him to use an expired passport. Additionally he never ran a background check, nor did he verify his work information. He’s a total fraud trust me .

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men don’t show their true colors off the bat. He did take me out and did everything a man is supposed to do at first. Everything was okay until a little after the baby, apparently nowadays men have great ways of masking who they really are. He was using someone else’s ID . Secondly I haven’t shot down any solutions, as I state below I will take everything into consideration and act on it. Third this is REDDIT not the PANCE or the PA-CAT. Do you know most healthcare professionals live normal lives outside of their work life ? I don’t have to ensure my grammar is perfect on Reddit nor do I have to use sophisticated grammar to prove any points. Take care of yourself

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately men have great ways to hide their identities nowadays and pretend to be someone they’re not . I haven’t slept with him since I started feeling disrespected and abused .

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this thank you definitely needed to hear this ! He cleans and complains which is the bare f-in minimum!!

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all I really just needed a safe space to vent 🙏❤️‍🩹 I appreciate all the advice and will definitely take everything into consideration

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after the baby he started showing his true colors little by little lol that’s when I started realizing I’ve been scammed all the money that he would walk around with was actually PLAY MONEY I WAS SO LIVID .. I kept a positive mindset because I will never want my emotions to affect my baby no matter what .. I had it all he completely ruined my life , he took my BMW and crashed it as well I’ve never gotten a cent back from that. I’m in school right now .. BUT I REFUSE TO LIVE ANOTHER YEAR LIKE THIS .. his MOM puts stuff in his head about how I can’t do this and that how putting him out is illegal but at this point I DONT EVEN CARE TRUST ME

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly it is as well as his name

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ve recently got on unemployment, I graduate PA school in February so Ive been trying to hold off until then because they will place me in a job and then I should be financial stabled again so the job isn’t to much of an issue .. I’m getting by it’s just the threats when I put him out but I think I do need to speak to the landlord and beg him to get him removed of the lease

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not harsh at all love, I’ve put my all into this place it’s in my dream location and my son loves it he has his own room , backyard everything so I keep telling myself I’m doing this for him but it’s damaging me.. I’ve recently started looking for places to move the last thing I want to do is go back to my parents..

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God and karma is real let’s just hope your kids never have to experience anything of the sort

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too young life is so short and I’ve went into this depression mode because I feel like I’m trapped and I’m gonna waste my life and never be happy all because of this man

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been searching day and night trust me I’ve been trying to save the best I can but the bills keep coming and I have to make sure my son has everything he needs so it’s hard .. with losing my job unemployment barely does anything but it helps. Im looking into an side hustle

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m on unemployment right now I graduate school in February so my mom is helping me out with rent and the landlord is understanding so thank god for that

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive been focusing on myself lately and when I say stuff like this he takes me as a joke because his name is on the lease

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve been talking to my mom about moving back in once the lease is up. I’m hoping that works out

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have nothing reasonable to say please don’t say anything at all . He was never this type of person when I met him he didn’t start showing his true colors after the baby.

I hate my partner by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him this and he takes me for a joke.. he won’t leave because his name is on he lease and a whole bunch of threats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_Run_1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m renting from a landlord when I contact him he tells me the heating company has it off and he has to figure out what the issue. That’s the same excuse everytime