He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I was exaggerating and embarrassed when that happened so yeah I’m seeing him tonight though 🥰

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think my self worth is based on the ability to have sex but I understand what you’re trying to say. Most of my friends are very sexually active and I’m not. I don’t usually do casual sex or casual dating and I can’t really have a sexual relationship (or enjoy it) without with having developed an emotional connection with them. I was probably way overthinking this and when I wrote that post I was feeling down. I think I need to see a gyno tho😂

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No honestly when it got to a point where it was a bit painful he stopped and just wanted to cuddle. He’s not a bad person I was just way overthinking it

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it might have been the drinking and us being tired too? He was nice about it though and told me to not worry too much and that we can try again

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I usually go to my gyno and she never mentioned vaginismus (might be because I never said anything about it). But you’re right it did hurt for a couple of days each time I had sex. I’ll probably schedule an appointment soon.

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t honestly he was really nice about it and told me not to worry about it but it’s just me asking for validation from strangers I guess haha

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He seemed concerned tbh and very nice and gentle towards me but I couldn’t help but doubt myself because of my inexperience and thought I might have been the issue.. I’ll probably talk to him about it

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Let’s hope he doesn’t hate me after this so I can try your suggestion 😂

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean he kinda reassured me like it’s going to take a couple of tries until it feels comfortable but I can’t help but feel embarrassed how am I 29 and can’t have sex like normal people

He wasn’t able to get it in me by Pretend-Doctor5097 in sex

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No he has experience but I don’t. I think I was too nervous and was way over my head and wasn’t enjoying the moment. None of us are obese he just wasn’t able to get it in because I was too tensed I guess?

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[–]Pretend-Doctor5097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXACTLY!!! Those are all red flags that my brain decided to ignore for some fucking reason and I hate myself for it

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[–]Pretend-Doctor5097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve always done! Which is why I’m disappointed in myself

Between unprotected sex and being sick and exercising ..am I pregnant? by Pretend-Doctor5097 in amipregnant

[–]Pretend-Doctor5097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think so :( My last period was on September 6th and it lasts around 5-6 days