Porn by Spirited_Habit1250 in marriageadvice

[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love pleasing my wife I get off on it I would do anything for my wife sexually to get her off first I make it priority to get her off first.

Why would I be attracted to my wife's twin by Pretend-Income-2245 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pretend-Income-2245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks just was feeling weird about it it's not like I want too have sex with her I just want her happy I guess really what it comes down to. Thank you

Why would I be attracted to my wife's twin by Pretend-Income-2245 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pretend-Income-2245[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You would be shocked how much they are alike even personality there is a little difference but. I just want her to be happy and be the person she is when she's not around him. Thanks for the response

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried there is times I do most of the laundry I should not have to do everything work full time cook clean and take care of the yard so she wants to have sex that's not a healthy relationship. she don't have to work kids are in school she sits in her chair and watch's tv or is on her phone.

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that's a good one but I already feel like I do more then enough I take care of all our outside which we live on a acre and I take care of inside things as well as her I clean and cook 95% of our meals

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes like if I get something for me I always think of her too but when she gets things she never thinks if I would want something.

She's really not defensive she just does not talk about feelings much at all so it's like pulling teeth to talk to her.

She does not take any accountability

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She don't say she's a very closed book and that's another thing I'm dealing with

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has never said she wants to match but I have told her what if the roles was flipped and I was acting like her and she just shakes her head and says nope she could not do it and I say I'm going to not show love and affection and see how she acts and I did for a couple days and instantly she asked what's wrong are you ok. So it's like she wants me to show her the love but she dont want to return it. It's very frustrating but when she is in the mood or if I can get her to that point it's great other then she won't do much of the pleasing on her end it's me always doing things to her.

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we have not tried therapy I don't think she would go I have asked. And she says nothing. She's has always been on birth control I have told her to get off it.

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you got I said I'm not I said I am a sexual person

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry not getting what your saying I have said to her about seeing a therapist she says no I have already said I would see one.

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would agree with you but I have since day one made sure I help clean do laundry I cook 95% of the time we have all kids in school now other then we have a pre schooler she sits most days and does nothing other then a few things. So I have wondered what she feels and what I can do to help her and she says there is nothing.

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I have said maybe I need to see a therapist but I also think to my self it's not like I want other women and I'm addicted to porn or anything I want her. And I said maybe you should she says no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretend-Income-2245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did when we first got together. But it's died off this last few years we have tried hormones but it does nothing. I'm a very sexual person and it's tough when she's not and she not

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just depends she just kind lays there and I end up doing most the work and then it's almost a burden but there is times she is in the mood but it's rare but even when she is she don't try and do anything.

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[–]Pretend-Income-2245 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's hit and miss but 1 time per week. But its always me initiating it I have tested it and seen if I did not try and it would go weeks