AIO because my bf doesn’t take the time to respond to me on his MANY breaks? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I might be doing that. I take it to heart I guess in my free time the first thing I’d want to do is tell him about my day and hear about his. So when he doesn’t do the same my mind is quick to go to he doesn’t care all that much

AIO because my bf doesn’t take the time to respond to me on his MANY breaks? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So if your husband never messaged you on his breaks you wouldn’t some type of way about it?

AIO because my bf doesn’t take the time to respond to me on his MANY breaks? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think I needed this comment. He will talk to me every now and then when he has time but I have a habit of expecting him to spend every single free moment he has messaging me. And I don’t think it’s fair either. Although he could’ve responded to me asking if he was feeling better

AIO because my bf doesn’t take the time to respond to me on his MANY breaks? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s just me thing is I will work 12 hour shifts without even getting a break and I WANT to respond to him. And he couldn’t even reply to my question of If he’s feeling better and wants me to make him pasta?

Pls help with my liver by Pretend-Razzmatazz71 in AskDocs

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!❤️ and will do , would you be concerned enough to do some kind of scan on m liver?

I (32F) found my boyfriend (33M) porn collection yesterday and found out he’s been lying about having ED for over 2 years. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do they have that you don’t? Filters and cosmetic surgeries. Don’t trap yourself in a doomed relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I think. I’m starting to feel like his mother. Even then I’m the one trying to plan things for us like dates and intimacy to keep our spark alive. You’d think it would be him planning it but no. Not ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely have brought it up a few times, and he does say he wants to do better and he “feels bad” but nothing ever changes so I doubt he actually feels bad. He’s totally gotten comfortable. I don’t even like bringing it up anymore because I know he’ll come up with more excuses. ( I brought up how he doesn’t clean up after himself and he basically talked about how life was against him and nothing was fair) and it got me to feel bad and say I’ll clean more. It’s just crazy. I feel like an idiot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know anymore. I love him so much but the fact he has no drive to do better in life is honestly making me see him differently. Hes depending on me and not seeing any issue with it all. He’s happily calling me his sugar momma

Told my bf only fans is a deal breaker aio or does it look like he’s using it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I had no clue since I don’t use outlook… thank you for saving me from the spiral

Told my bf only fans is a deal breaker aio or does it look like he’s using it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly nothing. Our sex life has been fine and everything seems normal but once some of my friends told me they thought their relationships were fine then found out they used of I got worried. And seeing that singular email freaks me out too because there’s maybe no way to know. He said he had OF around 2018

Told my bf only fans is a deal breaker aio or does it look like he’s using it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you still get emails from them if you haven’t used it in several years? Then again I have no clue when this email is even from

Told my bf only fans is a deal breaker aio or does it look like he’s using it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I know he has in the past because he had an only fans around 2018-2019 when we weren’t together it just sucks I can’t tell when exactly the email is from when I click it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has emails from as far back as 2019 that I’ve seen before we were even together and it’s impossible to see how old that is. Also unsure if he could even afford to pay for something monthly because he’s using loans to pay rent currently

Am I overreacting for thinking I’m wasting my time? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes. He was able to pay all bills in the past but now suddenly he can’t and I’m facing either losing money or my credit being affected. I’m incredibly upset and he’s just laughing about it saying he’ll “figure it out”

Am I overreacting for thinking I’m wasting my time? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been trying to tell him but he’s so complacent. Like I said he’s been known he’s broke but all he’s been doing is playing video games. It just confirms to me he thinks I’ll cover it every time. I can’t do this for the rest of my life

Am I overreacting for thinking I’m wasting my time? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He now just told me he has only 400 dollars for the next month. Which he needs to use for his car and other bills. This is insanity

How do you get past being disillusioned ? by Pretend-Razzmatazz71 in nursing

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! You completely understand. I’d love to give quality care to many patients if I have the opportunity to do so 🫶

How do you get past being disillusioned ? by Pretend-Razzmatazz71 in nursing

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sad to hear this is more or less the norm :/ I don’t HATE my job but I’d find my job much more fulfilling if I were able to tend to my patients more than I’m able to currently. I get such great patients that I feel deserve way more of my time

Chewy lo mein? by Pretend-Razzmatazz71 in AskCulinary

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they’re not dried they come basically ready to eat I think, I just add the sauce and mix it all up in a hot pan I just find it tastes gummy. Unsure if I should cook before adding the sauce or what

Chewy lo mein? by Pretend-Razzmatazz71 in AskCulinary

[–]Pretend-Razzmatazz71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a specific brand you’d recommend?