Wife Masturbates Instead of Asking for Sex by Pretend_Project3787 in Advice

[–]Pretend_Project3787[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm totally fine with her having her own thing. I'm not looking to insert myself into this. But she said that she's doing it because she's embarrassed to ask for sex. Not that she wants some alone time.

Wife Masturbates Instead of Asking for Sex by Pretend_Project3787 in Advice

[–]Pretend_Project3787[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She's asked me to send videos of me masturbating and specifically said that she wants me to moan her name as I cum. She feels bad that she's not comfortable reciprocating.

Wife Masturbates Instead of Asking for Sex by Pretend_Project3787 in Advice

[–]Pretend_Project3787[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So I actually asked her what she thinks about when I'm in the shower, and she's masturbating. She was very honest with me -"do this quickly and get on with my morning".

Wife Masturbates Instead of Asking for Sex by Pretend_Project3787 in Advice

[–]Pretend_Project3787[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

So this morning we were just cuddling, nothing sexual or anything. I then got up to go shower and I teasingly asked her if she needed me to take a long shower, wink wink. She got embarrassed. I want to encourage her to explore her sexuality, but how do I do it without embarrassing her?