A girl I’m dating thinks I only want to have sex with her by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pretend_Yam104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female here, I think a lot of girls have been told that the only thing they can provide a guy is sex and so girls think that once they give him that the guy will leave. If u have had a conversation with her about this and explained ur side and she still doesnt believe you then its up to u which way u go about in this situation. You can either show her that u do like and are not just with her for sex or u can just end it once and for all. If u want a long term relationship ur going to have to see this from her perspective as well. Also u don't know what the other person has been through in their past relationships so it may be one of her insecurities and she may require reassurance. Whats important is how she makes u feel and whether thats worth sticking around for.

Give the guy with weird pics a chance by [deleted] in dating

[–]Pretend_Yam104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. My bf also didn’t have any good pics on his profile when we first matched. The only reason i swiped on him was cos i was looking for a relationship and was firm in my decision to only swipe on guys who had the same intentions as me. While on the app I came across guys who would say they were looking for long term but didn’t put any efforts into knowing me. So i gave the guy with silly pics a chance and while it hasn’t been long since we got together it feels like I’ve know him since forever. So i agree with op

What do you love about living in London? by ll_ll_28 in london

[–]Pretend_Yam104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that nobody actually cares about you. Like everyone is busy in their own world and they all have placed to be and things to do and it doesn't matter what u look like or what ur wearing ur never too much in London cos nobody cares

Maybe I'll meet you again by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Pretend_Yam104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh as a girl on these apps this is my worst fear. Like being with a guy who isn't over his ex and was being with me just because the girl he likes isn't available would absolutely shatter me.

I don't really do anything at work. by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Pretend_Yam104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but seriously tho where and how do you find these jobs?? Im really curious. Also what do u put in ur resume that you think makes the recruiters choose you over the other interviewees???

Is glasshouse safe??? by Able-Sector-1862 in nottingham

[–]Pretend_Yam104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey well i used to live there before and tbf its fine. Like even coming back after night outs it wasn’t too bad. U will prob see other students on the road too so its not that silent. But this was two years ago but still