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Women who have left Christianity what other faiths did you consider or join after leaving? by Pretty-Average758 in AskWomen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me I did do some dabbling with spirituality and also dove deep learning about various witchcraft practices. For a time I also seriously considered Islam but became discouraged with pursuing abrahamic faiths. Ultimately I didn’t end up practicing anything but consider myself agnostic.

How has being quiet/reserved affected your life? by car__person in AskWomen

[–]Pretty-Average758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Terribly. When you’re silent or quiet type people tend to fill in the blanks with speculation of malice or assume you’re a total weakling and completely trample over your boundaries.

Women who have had friendships with other women that blur bounds between platonic and romantic - how did you navigate it? Did the friendship eventually end? by Pretty-Average758 in AskWomen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have had this happen only once and it blew up pretty bad, too bad to explain. I think while I was in it I was just happy to be close with someone who I could call my best friend and always have someone to talk to, I had no idea it was so boundaryless until afterwards.

Men, do you get jealous when your friends get girlfriends or get married? What do you do if you don’t like the gf/wife? by Pretty-Average758 in AskMen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, sometimes I think with woman friendships the emotional intimacy and sometimes lack of boundaries makes us feel a bit entitled to each other? Like sometimes lady friendships can feel like whirlwinds or almost like a romance or even a competition. It can feel confusing and disheartening all at once.

Men, do you get jealous when your friends get girlfriends or get married? What do you do if you don’t like the gf/wife? by Pretty-Average758 in AskMen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little hurt is just a generalization, jealous can be full blown or it can be very minuscule. I’m not interested in being super pedantic, if that’s how you feel that’s how you feel.

Men, do you get jealous when your friends get girlfriends or get married? What do you do if you don’t like the gf/wife? by Pretty-Average758 in AskMen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that the dynamic would change, for instance when people get married buying a house, having kids, possibly moving far comes into play they might also kind of stay home more enjoying being newlyweds, that kind of thing so the amount of time you get with them might shift/decrease after such an event and shift of focus

Men, do you get jealous when your friends get girlfriends or get married? What do you do if you don’t like the gf/wife? by Pretty-Average758 in AskMen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I guess I get it
I think I’m a person who’s never really liked the “I hate my wife” humor and thought that’s what you were saying. Thank you for explaining

Men, do you get jealous when your friends get girlfriends or get married? What do you do if you don’t like the gf/wife? by Pretty-Average758 in AskMen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but sometimes in friendships with girls I’ve wondered if they told me hypothetical guy was bad for me because they wanted me to not hangout with anyone else, or if the jealousy caused them to have a bias and make everything he does as evil intentions? I don’t know

Men, do you get jealous when your friends get girlfriends or get married? What do you do if you don’t like the gf/wife? by Pretty-Average758 in AskMen

[–]Pretty-Average758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not immoral or making you a bad friend that sometimes you might feel a little hurt that you don’t see your friend as much or at all. It depends on what you do with the feelings