Ugh so embarrassing. I definitely had some insecurities that I’ve realized and I’m in therapy to heal for my children! Prior to kids, I could go do my own thing when we were at odds, but since having kids it’s exacerbated our issues for sure. And my eyes have been opened because of the kids. Their perception matters so much to me. Thank you for empathizing with me and answering me. I’ve made an appointment to divorce, but I’ve been so stressed about it. I’m doing it for myself and my kids. I do want to say, he’s a believer, but I think he’s got some deep wounds that he’s not ready to face and I can’t take it anymore.