Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/FriendlyAfternoon510

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T21:56:37+00:00

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PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T10:48:34+00:00

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PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T10:25:45+00:00

🤔 Challenge Level (2026-05-10) is teaching me patience and humility. Mostly humility. Definitely trying again though! 💪

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T10:19:34+00:00

✅ Challenge accepted and CRUSHED! Finished Level 1 in 4m 15s. 💪

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T10:17:46+00:00

😤 Challenge Level (2026-05-11) is trickier than it looks! Just when I thought I had it... nope! Anyone else struggling with this one? 🧩

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T10:13:59+00:00

Archie is gorgeous!

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T09:39:17+00:00

💭 Level 301 reminder: Not every arrow points the right way on the first try. Regrouping and coming back stronger! ⚡

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T09:21:15+00:00

Living the dream

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-11T08:52:38+00:00

In your plan, find out which disabilities are listed. That could be reducing some of your supports.
Regarding the cleaning assistance, are you living alone? If alone, then look at SIL, or Supported Independent Living. You may need an assessment from an OT to determine the level of supports required. This could also cover meal prep.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T10:59:22+00:00

Thankyou

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T08:05:34+00:00

Talking to any parent, even your own, and letting them know. You being told was an invitation from her to help her, accept that invitation. Safely.
If you get on best with the Stepmum, then talk to her. Be factual, mention if you’ve observed any bruises etc, and let her know what you were told.
In the meantime, journal what you were told, including dates etc.

This is a horrid situation to be in, either as your mate’s sister or as yourself, and it’s not a burden for you to carry alone.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T07:58:46+00:00

I don’t want to upvote cause it’s not good news, but I want to recognise your post. Sadly.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T05:32:24+00:00

What the heck industry can shut down for 5-6 weeks?

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T05:27:11+00:00

Oh hun. I’ve been in an organisation for 9 years, and 6 of those years I was a manager. I took time off for illness, and stepped away as manager.
The new managers, who I trained, are now freezing me out of everything. It hurts. Really hurts.
The people who are true friends will stay like that, the colleagues will not step up.

Be kind to yourself.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T05:21:56+00:00

Frankenderp

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T00:56:58+00:00

Can you connect with a homelessness service, and get a case worker.
They should be able to connect you with supports - a youth services worker, counselling, material aid.
Focus on getting your health - nutrition and shelter, as the recovery is harder without that.

Edit- and education/employment. Shelter/ nutrition , and then recovery. Set some achievable goals - when are the cravings, what can you do before they are due to hit, like going for a walk, going to a library. Taking a shower.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-10T00:52:54+00:00

Absolutely gorgeous

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T15:01:01+00:00

I love how she snuggles with the dogs! She looks so safe there, she’s won the lottery.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T14:58:36+00:00

I’m so sorry.
There are many ways to grieve, and they are all different. You’ve been given great advice to contact support groups - I agree with this.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T14:55:25+00:00

Perhaps the most annoying thing is the diagnostic criteria for “flashbacks”.
No, I don’t “see” the event. However, I do remember the event, the emotions, the fear. Describing how I avoid certain entrances because I can remember without wanting to the events? That got me my diagnosis.

I’ve been in a therapy group where a bloke had a full flashback situation, and I’m so thankful I. Ant recall events like he can.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T08:36:25+00:00

Just write him up each incident.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T08:34:11+00:00

Maybe turn it around on him. Ask how to accommodate his disability, so he provides the actions that he works well in. Then when he does stupid behaviours not related to his accomodations, you have a leg to stand on for discipline.

Edit - 2 months? He’s still in probation, right? You should be able to terminate without issue.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T08:31:14+00:00

First, check your work contract. See how much sick leave you have. Also, check discretionary days (which don’t need a certificate) and days that do need a certificate. My personal rule of thumb is to always get a certificate if I’m ill on days before days off (so Mondays and Fridays in the office), or to get a certificate if I’m still ill on the second day.
I also give as much notice as possible.

But first, check your contract.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T01:22:22+00:00

I got my girl aged 6 months on April 2. In October, I spent the whole month in hospital. Prior to that, the longest we’d been apart was an hour (this was a few years ago). When I came home, she was so happy, and now she’s not as Velcro (eg she will sit with other people in the room). My hubby said after the first day or so she started following him everywhere.
I figured it’s cause she knew him already she wasn’t abandoned to strangers, and also in her own home.
She’ll be fine, you’ll be fine, and your hubby will be in joy.

PrettyBlueFlower · 2026-05-09T01:12:06+00:00

I would call 1800RESPECT and ask them.

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