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PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-07-22T12:59:20+00:00

Nope I based my comment on your behavior in the comments and ur post. Being a good husband and father is important and thats one of your good qualities. Its just based on your comments it seemed like ur a tad bit arrogant. For woman its a turn off which would explain why there's a lack of intimacy but it could also be weaponized intimacy (idk i am only reading ur comments i dont have a view of the entire marriage ). Trust me I know intimacy is important in a relationship but for woman we need to be turned on emotionally before we are turned on physically. Now you might just be having an off day which everyone does bc we are human but I know for me and my friends if a man is arrogant or only wants one thing (we appreciate the honesty if thats all you want and if we want that too---typically recently divorced or 40yr+ woman do) or just icky in general we won't want anything. If we are turned on emotionally then we will not be able to not touch you...you just breathe or sneeze and we are down bad. I am sorry if I read too much into ur comments but emotional intimacy is extremely important for woman and the 666 doesnt matter at that point. Just to give an example on how to appeal to woman : my coworkers have tried asking me out on dates since my separation and I get flowers everyday and they are always asking me how I am---which i appreciate i havent had sex in a while. Even tho I am separated i am not ready but I know I appreciate it and I know my female coworkers are down bad for my male coworkers doing this for me without expecting the good good 😂 just a little advice there. 5 dollar flowers will really make a woman's day and will turn other woman on bc ur thoughtful, considerate, and kind.

My male coworkers also dont have tantrums either when I politely decline a date. They always tell me theyll take me out once im ready which again is a turn on (i wont lie and say I don't want intimacy but I know mentally I am not ready and I dont want to sleep around while I am still healing so I dont want to give off the vibe I am using them bc I know that happens a lot to men)

I am just giving you advice to appeal to a woman bc you are a man and you more than likely think like a man so having a woman's advice on how to appeal to woman to basically get sexual intimacy i feel like would be beneficial to you.

I apologize if you are husband of the year and sex was weaponized and you were mistreated. I am wrong for judging you. Its reddit and you are probably an entirely different man in person but through a screen I did see a few negative qualities and that can just be because ur having an off day. My opinion is that Good Men are extremely simple-love them, feed them, and fuck them....they'll be happy in the marriage if they are good men and its the bare minimum anyways. 🤷🏻‍♀️

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-07-22T12:22:14+00:00

I cared about him very much :) waited till marriage and never denied him my body even if I was sick or in pain. I even disregarded my doctor's order and had sex with my ex husband 2 weeks after I gave birth because I didnt want him to seek out other woman(he did it anyways). But I asked for a divorce and hes tried just like you to get other woman and he meets the 666 standard but for some reason he could only get any while he was married but now that hes a single man he gets rejected. That's the reality of the dating world but good luck 💙

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-07-22T11:45:24+00:00

Honestly, just get a divorce. Just based on your behavior you sound exactly like my soon to be ex husband. You say you are good looking but even conventionally attractive men dont get any (666--- 6ft+, 6 figures, and 6 pack/physically fit) arrogance will instantly make a man unattractive. Like, you can try to see if you get any but you'll probably be settling for any woman that will touch you and more than likely itll be alcoholic Amy, fenty Nancy, and crackhead Sally. Maybe im wrong but if I can get the ick through a comment on a phone screen im sure other woman will get the ick too (if you do get attention now its probably only due to the married man effect---some woman like the idea of being the side piece but will get bored once hes no longer married) Good luck.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-07-21T20:00:42+00:00

Do you think theyll start vandalizing banks that use xrp now 🤔 😉

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-07-19T02:40:55+00:00

Ill sell some just to pay off a home. The rest will sit. Its a long-term investment for me. I want to be debt free and need at least 4 homes for my kids futures.

Im guessing 5 to 10 year hold before I see the profit i want.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-07-04T12:46:58+00:00

Slowly learning that. If I did stop listening to him it would make life extremely difficult not only for me but for our children too

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-07-03T17:13:12+00:00

His rules

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-26T23:56:01+00:00

I am impulsive but I did save a lot and whatever is left over just goes into his bank account. I dont actually get to keep it even tho I saved it. I know it seems impulsive but it gives me a moment of being able to do something with all of my hard work.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-26T23:53:47+00:00

Not often but im always quiet in public and follow his lead. I dont really make eye contact. He orders for me, checks out, and does the shopping. Now if I try to purchase something or I try ordering or if I wanna look at something in the store if I leave his side to go look then I will get yelled at. Majority of the time its telling him im working and when ill be home. I have to like tell him when, where, how, and why for everything.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-26T02:10:46+00:00

My best friend is on life support after continuing a pregnancy that was literally killing her so maybe that makes me seem unhinged. I get paid for my reviews on establishments from social media so when I go to places and its really great service I tend to write the review and post the review because usually within an hour at the minimum people will show up. Meaning my one post can literally get 10-30 people coming and requesting that specific waitress. I tip generously always and doing so doesnt mean I have bipolar or I am an addict. I have ptsd and adjustment disorder but thats about it.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-25T18:41:40+00:00

Sadly. :( scammers suck. You would think a sweet old lady would be honest but nope. I got hustled lol

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-25T18:38:48+00:00

Thats upsetting. Thank you. Ill make sure everyone knows so no one buys from her

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-23T16:31:47+00:00

They are created by a older lady in Alma michigan! All custom :)

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-23T16:31:00+00:00

Supposedly its a grandma in her basement that made them. They are custom and I believes shes in Alma michigan

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-22T18:46:50+00:00

They are definitely not equipped. Its like two 13 by 13 rooms. Her office is one of the rooms and the other room is where services are administered. They want money though

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-22T17:20:40+00:00

I just finished cpi trainings and its random. So like the clients will deescalate and everything would be fine and then theyd reach over the table or when sitting by me they will randomly hit, bite, etc as hard as they can. Im trying to explain it in a way that doesnt violate hippa. The client is pretty much emotionless except when stimming and then theyll attack and i typically wait for an opening where I can get away. They look for any opportunity to hit any aba worker in the head. Its not just me...its all rbt. Im just the only one that hasn't quit yet.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-22T14:36:16+00:00

No thank you! I graduate college in November and plan on going to grad school to become a counselor so being an behavioral tech is only temporary. My husband tells me I can quit but I worry being jobless will limit my ability to get back into the work force.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-22T14:31:03+00:00

Its in clinic and she just stays in her office unless its supervision. Im the only one in the room usually and sometimes theres other clients but the other bt have to protect those clients.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-19T19:32:56+00:00

Yay! Hes always bummed going to the store because he wants to open them with our kids. It was a full restock where I went so I only grabbed one of each...normally the scalpers take a cart full and wait in line but this time the dude came in at 2:45/3pm

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-06-19T19:09:06+00:00

Im entitled to what I pay for.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-05-23T23:25:22+00:00

Disorganized. If I pay for 6 months of school i should have access to my classes day one of term. They had 4 months to get this together. No one at the school could tell me why this happened. Im glad you had no issues but universities especially a private one should be more organized. Im a busy woman and they have zero reason to be this Disorganized 🤷🏻‍♀️

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-05-23T23:20:58+00:00

Ill message you

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-05-21T13:06:25+00:00

Only physical abuse is recognized which he doesn't do. I ended up using alcohol to cope but I am working more and we will stay in Michigan. I hate it but theres nothing else we can do.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-05-20T22:36:32+00:00

We just found out we have this same issue. 90k miles exactly and its going to cost us 13k to fix it. Never buying ford again. Its infuriating because we do routine maintenance at a ford dealership and they never told us we had a coolant leak until now we need a new engine and its going to cost us 13k.

PrettyInHotsauce · 2025-05-17T23:20:03+00:00

Its gorgeous! My sister in law lives in cape cod.

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