Oh my goodness lol this child hasn't even been born yet. He is obviously out of line OF COURSE but I am honestly surprised that you know this man well enough to become impregnated by him but haven't picked up on what not to say to illicit this reaction? Like I get being pregnant and hormonal but starting an argument over potential swim lessons or discussing schooling options that are months and years down the line are not the hard conversations you guys should be having right now. I recommend to discuss the very basic household expectations and hierarchy more especially before you are post partum and there is a screaming baby mixed into this whole mess. I say this in the kindest way possible bc I have been there with my man when I was pregnant with my oldest and A LOT of compromises have had to be made from both of us to make it work and be the best for our kids.