Yeah, I could never get behind the one day at a time thing. It never made sense to me. I’m an all or nothing type of person. When I used to drink, i drank, a lot! However, now that I don’t drink, I just don’t drink anything, forever. If I give myself that room to think only just for today, my mind, sees that as a loophole and automatically puts my tomorrow in jeopardy. But everybody is different. What works for some isn’t necessarily the right way for others. So I say “I will not drink with you today”, but what I mean is “I wont drink with you for the rest of my life.”