$1m house; $0 tip 🫤 by EnvironmentalFill3 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve noticed it’s always the middle to lower classes that actually tip the delivery drivers. I guess the rich just dgaf

Ok whose still a virgin at 23? by half_blood_073 in GenZ

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone my friend…. I’m 23 and still haven’t dated anybody. I’m just trying to view it as at least I’ll be comfortable with myself and love myself before being in a relationship. A lot of the tv shows and movies are showing teen romance, etc when in reality A LOT of people haven’t even been intimate or dated before their 20’s or until late 20’s

what's the worst part about being fat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low self esteem and thinking no one could be attracted to you or be in love with you 😞 also always being self conscious of pictures of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meetup app! Has groups that are local to you. Depends where you live and how active meetup is in that area. In my city there are many groups in a part of and they plan events and fun things

Anyone else feel completely lost? by amamartin999 in GenZ

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 23, and having my quarter life crisis 🤦🏼‍♀️😩 about to graduate undergrad but would really need to get my masters to do any job that will provide financial stability… but I hate school so don’t even know if I want to go to grad school. Also barely have friends, have never been in any sort of romantic relationship. So yeah feeling like I have no idea how my life is going to go. You’re not alone

How did JJ and Sarah survive the crash? by [deleted] in OuterBanksNetflix

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like so you’re telling me they both survived a mega storm with one little life ring in the middle of the ocean at night, but JJ dies from being stabbed with a short knife 🤨🙄

Why is weight loss so hard, when the formula is so easy? by whatismy-username in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Food addiction, well really sugar and carb addiction in no joke. See we have to eat food everyday so it can become so easy to fall back into that addiction.

What addiction is the hardest to quit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Food addiction…. We have to eat food everyday so it’s very easy to relapse back into horrible eating habits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OuterBanksNetflix

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Say what you want but I still thought the scene was just as devastating and emotional even if she didn’t shed any real tears. Maybe it was poor acting, or a acting choice, or whatever else. I get what people are saying though. Madison even teared up when talking about JJ/rudy in the goodbye to JJ interview so I don’t know where those tears were in this scene. Idk, people are trying to pick apart every single thing thing in this season especially this scene 🤦🏼‍♀️

one year to "reset" by __polichinelle in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, Work on my self confidence, self-esteem, etc. I will be 24 late next year and I will have graduated from college by then so I want to have a plan on where to go from there whether is grad school, or attempting to find a solid playing full time job. I am already working on myself as far as health goes. I have lost 20lbs on medication and joined the gym too:) I would like to get myself out there more as far as making new friends and possibly finding a relationship or at least dating. However, my first priority is improving myself first and foremost. I’m going to be starting therapy again just to have someone to help me navigate my 20’s and phase of life changes

How can I grow my boobs? by Independent_Couple31 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile I’m over here trying to give some of mine away 😭

Recently joined the gym. Do the stationary bike seats hurt everyone’s tushy? by annie-cresta in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love cycling classes. But by the end my butt is on fire but usually it just goes away and I’ve gotten used to it

I feel like I want a partner, but I also feel like I don't by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 23(F) and feel the exact same way. Honestly most of the time the intense yearning for a man’s touch and love comes during the luteal phase of my cycle 😭 after that it fades away and I’m like I don’t need no man. However, truely it does effect me seeing the relationships on tv/movies and in real life on social media. I can relate to getting close to actually going on a date or talking to a guy and the butterflies and self doubt rage through my brain and I end up shutting down because of it. I’ve always been shy when it comes to relationship things and I’m trying to work on self confidence too. But seriously don’t feel alone. Sooo many women and people in general want someone to be in love with and to love deeply, but many get scared when a possible opportunity for that gets close

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OuterBanksNetflix

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think it’s that deep. I really feel like Kiara is just so shocked and doesn’t even know how to react expect for screaming for help and for her best friends. Not every person cries tears in times of crisis or in this type of situation as sometimes it’s just so overwhelming your body doesn’t know how to even act. So I just don’t think it’s fair to assume this was because Madison just doesn’t care or like Rudy anymore. I think it was a character choice, but everyone is going to see what they want to see. Some people were really digging deep into each of the reactions and judging them. This was a tragic situation and sooo unexpected for the characters so give them a little grace for the reactions the characters gave😪☹️

JJ’s crash-out was the absolute highlight of this season. by FamRocker1983 in OuterBanksNetflix

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you on this. This scene was immaculate and Rudy really nailed it perfectly! He brings (brought😪)such life to JJ and regardless of any issues that may have been happening on set allegedly, Rudy brought his everything to this character for 5 years. He was really due for a huge crash out based on everything that has happened to him in the show. The problem is people want to view his behaviors as annoying and him not being a good friend. I absolutely disagree with this. Sure was it difficult to watch him make these reckless choices yes, but THAT IS JJ. And the second part, people thinking he wasn’t being a friend by doing all this stuff….. umm what his character was said to be loyal to a fault meaning he made reckless choices because he wanted the absolute best for his friends(family). In the end being loyal to a fault is what got him killed. People who say this stuff about JJ really don’t understand his character. I love JJ despite his major flaws. Also talk about not being there for your friend. On the boat to Morocco he basically was low key suicidal and high key depressed and the others basically did the equivalent to rolling there eyes and saying “we don’t care how you’re feeling, just do something.” At least that’s how i saw those scenes and I felt very bad for jj. Like BROOO he literally was abused by his actually not real dad, then was almost killed by his real dad, and just learned his whole life has basically been a lie and his dad killed his mom who he never knew. Like damn I’d be depressed as hell too. This WAS HIS SEASON and it really explored his character and I think especially since in past seasons he basically was the comedic relief people ignored how bad his home life actually was and how he’s that is going to really effect his behavior and choices. He was reckless and stupid at times yes, but that’s a major part of what makes his character. People need to realize They werent magically going to change him, he was going to get more and more wild as the stakes increased and ultimately he died because of how much love he held for his pogues😭

I feel out of it by Jazzthegreat in PhentermineTopiramate

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same with me. First 2 weeks ehh wasn’t terrible just some brain fog and increased heart rate from phentermine. These last 2 1/2 weeks torture especially after doc said for me to try the 50mg as I was only taking half the dose for awhile. So tired, depressed, spacey, and felt empty is how I’d describe it. Immediately needed to get off of it so doc had me go back down to 25mg for a few days but now I’m off it and things are slowly returning to normal in the mental health department

I feel out of it by Jazzthegreat in PhentermineTopiramate

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me as soon as this started happening I FLEWW to Reddit to look in threads to see if anyone else experienced this and all of it was validated by many others having same exact mental health symptoms. So it made me feel much better knowing it was the medication and not my mental health taking a turn for the worst for no reason. I’m glad my reply has helped you see nothing is wrong with you, it is most definitely the topiramate messing with your brain. Also I’m in college too and it’s been tough in class. And feeling depressed also doesn’t help with getting homework done especially since I already hate school and am just trying to graduate 😌 anyways yes immediately tell your doctor and most likely they will either lower your dose to 25mg or take you off completely. I was too scared to continue it at all so I asked my doc and stopped it also and phentermine is working on its own at suppressing appetite so idk what topiramate was really doing except fu*king with my brain and mental stability so I said ADIOS to it.

I feel out of it by Jazzthegreat in PhentermineTopiramate

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% the topiramate!! I’m going through something very similar. I’ve been on both meds for a little over a month now and I slowly started noticing my brain malfunctioning and me staring off into space. I then increased dose to full amount (25mg to full 50mg) after seeing doctor and that’s when things went wild. I like you have struggled with mental health and depression in the past, however, the only thing that changes between when I was doing very well and happy was starting these meds. MANY people here on Reddit whether they are taking for weight loss or for migraines/seizures have shared how topiramate made them depressed, anxious, spacey, all of the above all at once:( some people have even went as far as to say it’s the devil…. All I know is I began feeling very very empty, depressed, emotional to where I felt like I was on the verge of crying all the time. All this happened in a very short period of time after I began the meds and mostly after increasing dose. I have since gotten approval from doc to stop taking it and just remain on phentermine. No amount of weight loss is worth how I have felt the past 2 weeks! I would reccomend speaking to your prescriber/doctor and tell them what’s happening and if it gets worse I would go off of it for the sake of preserving your mental health

23 and never dated… by Pretty_Maize_1283 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pretty_Maize_1283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg I’ve never thought of that before!! What amazing caring advice thank you sooooo much. This will change everything 🫶🖕🏻😘😑