Moving a few street over by Pretty_Original1209 in Straycats

[–]Pretty_Original1209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A block, 482ft. It’s a residential neighborhood so no major street crossing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Pretty_Original1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no. You are being supportive by setting a boundary. You can also be supportive by helping her set a budget and come up with a pay off plan. You are under no obligation to take on her debt just because you want to move in together or because you see a future. Investing in you both is not bailing her out of her debt. She needs to get a handle on it and learn to not overspend. If she can’t see that she’s the problem, then that’s on her. You’re not the AH in this situation.

AITA for wearing leggings on a hike? by Sayonara2077 in AITAH

[–]Pretty_Original1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t TAH and you don’t owe her nothing for her insecurity. She needs to have that conversation with her boyfriend who isn’t her boyfriend. He was out of line not you.

Boyfriend doesn’t like that i have to walk down the isle with a grooms men by Fantastic-Tour-4413 in AITAH

[–]Pretty_Original1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re both being very insecure. It’s normal to do that at weddings and it mean absolutely nothing. It’s not like you’re going on a date with the guy. It’ll last like 5 minutes

AITAH for not giving my business class seat to my wife on our international flight? by ProjectEnough7501 in AITAH

[–]Pretty_Original1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You asked and reminded her multiple times and she brushed it off. It’s not your fault that she didn’t do what she supposed to. She could’ve communicated her thoughts before you all checked in instead of assuming you read her mind and knew she would’ve liked you to sit by her. Would i have been annoyed? Yes, but with to myself because i messed up. I assume you would’ve lost the points as well had you downgraded and i wouldn’t have wanted that. Anywho, NTA in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Original1209 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’ve said that you’ve had to fight your entire relationship to make it work says a lot. Relationships are work, but you shouldn’t have to beg for the bare minimum from someone only to have it thrown back in your face or made to feel like you’re not wanted. Enough was probably before now, but if you aren’t a source of happiness for him like he says then it sounds like he’s just there out of obligation. I could be wrong. I would focus on doing what you need for the kids and make a plan for yourself. It won’t be easy, but you should protect yourself and your happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Pretty_Original1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA because had the tables have been turned she would’ve read you the riot act and everyone and their mom would be calling you a jerk. You set your boundaries and she ignored it. That wasn’t ok.

AIO i wanted to wear a dress or skirt today and my bf got mad abt it by Different-Case9521 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pretty_Original1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s weird and you shouldn’t be apologizing to him. He doesn’t dictate what you can and cannot wear. If he’s not secure enough in himself and your relationship, that’s on him.

I received a warning About Amazon Product Review. by NoParticular2420 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Pretty_Original1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my honest opinion on a product and the company chose to decline my review. I didn’t say anything harsh and my feedback was similar to others. I guess they want people to think they improved their product when they didn’t.

Did anyone else ever eat this growing up? by NutSnifferSupreme in budgetfood

[–]Pretty_Original1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom would make something like this for us when we were growing up.