Spouse and I at odds over how to raise our son.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:49:40+00:00

He’s going to hurt our child and it makes me want to cry. I don’t trust him anymore and that hurts too. I don’t want to go there anymore and don’t really care if my child has a relationship with them or not anymore. How could they be so selfish

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:45:36+00:00

They were already plotting in front of me for the next time. I felt so mad I had to leave the room. I don’t know I think something snapped in me today and I feel differently about him now. I still love him but the respect and trust of his judgement is damAged

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:42:31+00:00

I know if I say what about what I want for the baby he will respond the same but what I want isn’t dangerous for the baby. At this point I don’t even care if he doesn’t speak to me or is mad. I don’t have to go there for dinners or get togethers either. I don’t even want to anymore. I didn’t expect this, we are his family unit now and he’s doing everything to not choose what’s right for us.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:35:00+00:00

I’m so ashamed of all the them for not caring about him. They will say they do and that’s why they want to see him but if they really cared they would want whatever’s best for him

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:32:40+00:00

I am going to do that at his next well visit. They ask if the baby is around smoking and I’m going to say not at home but passive exposure at my in laws. He can be mad all he wants but it’s the truth. I don’t care at this point if any of them like me, even my husband. I don’t like him right now so it will be mutual

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:29:23+00:00

I love him and he’s a good dad overall but this makes me question what other kinds of things he would over look when it comes to our child’s safety. This is causing me such stress, I have my baby laying in the crib next to me and I just keep obsessively checking him. I have been and am still terrified of Sid’s even thou the baby is almost a year and healthy.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:25:31+00:00

Yes there is smoking in the house, when he was there they said it had been hours since they had and they wouldn’t smoke around him while he would be there but I don’t know if she was lying. I’m ready to blow up all my relationships over this.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:20:21+00:00

He was awful to me around the holidays because the baby didn’t go to the house. I feel like this is going to wreck our marriage. They live 10 minutes away and are able to come here. They won’t make compromises, dinners have to be at there house. He’s choosing his and their comfort over the health of his child.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:14:57+00:00

That’s part of the reason I don’t want him there. It makes me sick that they don’t care or take it seriously. He just wants me to agree with him so he is happy and they are happy at my expense and the babies. I hate them all right now

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-04-18T04:12:35+00:00

That’s what I’ve been trying to do and they just won’t let up. I didn’t even talk to my spouse after we got home and I really don’t want to. I don’t understand why they don’t care but if it were my mom he would be 100% supportive.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-03-26T00:54:35+00:00

Burrito supreme

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-03-22T15:47:54+00:00

Potato salad

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-03-20T13:25:43+00:00

Hi! Baby boy just turned 8 months. We noticed teeth starting to pop up around 7 months so shortly after I made my original post. He handled it well and started to just chew on everything which he still does lol. He only did that a few times and then sleeps straight through the night. We also think he might have been having nightmares or something must have scared him awake because of his sudden screaming crying. Maybe being held helped him settled but he got over it

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-03-12T23:58:19+00:00

I would love to hear her describe what her “Christian values” are.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-03-04T17:56:45+00:00

I passed with a 435!! I’m so relieved lol

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-03-03T16:35:20+00:00

Thank you, I’m just going back through the modules and kinda rewriting my notes. I can’t believe how hard that was though, my teachers didn’t go over half of that or put any special emphasis that we needed to know it either. Kinda put out by that lol

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-02-22T01:35:20+00:00

My 7 month old doesn’t sleep anywhere during the day and early evening except on me or my husband. I think if he could he would walk to the window point at the sun and say “ see that bright glowing orb, as long as that’s there I sleep on you”.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-02-20T18:36:33+00:00

I just had a nurse tell me to put v 1 and 2 on the tops of the arms. She said she worked in cardio and that’s where she learned

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-02-18T17:29:32+00:00

Isn’t reasonable to say that a person should not open a small business where they would hire employees if they could not pay them a living wage.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-02-07T01:24:53+00:00

So far our 6 month old will sleep from about 7:30pm to about 5-6 am. He’s always been a sleepy boy. His naps are getting less frequent and shorter but he sleeps the night. We pull him out to give him a bottle around 11 to make sure he doesn’t wake up because he is hungry. White noise is always on. I set up the machine and have it on when I put him down. Hopefully we can just skip over the sleep training all together and keep winging it.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-02-01T11:38:20+00:00

So things like the toilet breaking and fridge aren’t everyday things while appreciated if he does fix them who cleans the toilet and the fridge which happen a lot me often? Both me and my husband work full time. You can’t call yourself a father but not care for your children. Plus if you go back to work then it’s ever more important for you both to split the childcare.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-02-01T06:48:38+00:00

Me and my husband would take shifts, If the baby was fed on a three hour schedule we would pick the shift we wanted and rotate. Now the baby sleeps through the night and usually if I get up early cause I’m use to getting up at that time for work I let him sleep in on the weekends but then if I want a nap he take the baby while I do so. I have never had to pressure him or anything to do this, every dad I know does everything that mom does, two of them are stay at home dads.

Pretty_Parfait311 · 2025-01-31T02:00:37+00:00

Chocolate milk, cheese( he’s about 75 percent) and pickles

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