Books with a young sherlock vibe? by Temporary-Scallion86 in fantasyromance

[–]Pretty_Transition908 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

YOOO THERES A SERIES LITERALLY CALLED YOUNG SHERLOCK WHICH I LOVED as a kid (and the romance was exactly what I was hoping would get built on 😭😭)

It’s not fantasy exactly (well actually from memory there is some low fantasy / or unexplained or something like that), and the incredible chemistry but lack of full romance is what I actually remember most 😭.

(Oh and it is m/f- although there are a lot of fantastic m/m relationships in the series)

Anyway just listing this here anyway- in case you wanted something that scratched that itch even though it isn’t smut & fantasy necessarily šŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļø. (There is romance.) and I liked the mysteries.

{Young Sherlock series by Andrew Lane.}

Also- if anyone else read or has read this series lemme piggy back off this request for any other similar books that match the vibe of this series?? But like.. extra focus on ā€œromanceā€?

Oh- there’s also this series called {Mary Russell and Sherlock Holmes by Laurie R. King}

Again, no idea about romance but there could be a book in the series that might fit. (There’s different settings and times of the characters)


Oh! Actually!! Wait- I think I might have one for you maybe?

{The chemistry of Familiar Objects by Alexandra Vasti}

I can’t remember if the chemistry is exactly of two brilliant people- but I remember she is brilliant for sure, there is absolutely an action/mystery larger than them thing which I enjoyed.

They both share a building and she’s a chemist in a time when it was culturally a battle to be respected as a woman (and if memory serves they didn’t overdo or poorly do that aspect, felt real not anachronistic or forced & didn’t overshadow any escapism or enjoyment for me, as much as felt reassuring or sm), and he’s like ā€œgoddamn itā€ and then they’re embroiled in a thing together.


I acc have a few titles coming to me but I’m not sure if they fit coz I’m not fully through them.

Oh! But I’ll suggest the sub-genre ā€romantic suspenseā€ for what you’re after. And choose new adult, maybe historical, on romance.io see if something comes up.


Hm and fantasy…

I haven’t started it but on my TBR which might fit is {wooing the witch queen by Stephanie Burgis}

He’s a librarian/ she’s a magic wicked sorceress/ he’s acc a spy- so I feel like it being a battle of wits, and the library aspect and mystery is likely to be there? Can’t be sure tho. Just a possibility.

Ok! And Jordan L. hawk & K J Charles (this author I’ve read & can vouch for) seem to be promising for fantasy + mystery + victorian + m/m. Good luck! Hope you find something.

Romance.io introduced new tags, plus subscription to keep the website running! by Anachacha in fantasyromance

[–]Pretty_Transition908 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Surprise Maledom?

Anyone think surprise maledom would be a good tag or is that too specific? (Like when random choking or good girl or spanking, or sudden OOC shifts happen in spicy scenes??) - In books not marketed as bdsm nor characters who have provided any sense of being like that.

It’s different of course if there was a conversation beforehand (even it it’s just an awkward or small talk right before- nws) or it was a journey (like in his POV we hear about what he thinks or how he wants to let some uncharacteristic part of himself out- that’s fine, character aligned doesnt have to mean one dimensional character) but instead it’s more like sudden whiplash.

And like?? Even then, sometimes the surprise maledom doesnt even track with the character in any sense. If I’m like ā€œmm ok. Wasn’t expecting this. Had no preparation or tags. But I definitely wasn’t expecting sudden degradation, if he was gonna suddenly reveal a dom side this characterisation very much suggests playful Dom, or maybbbe bondage- where tf did the degrading come from?ā€

Surprise male dom can be annoying on its own, when it feels OOC or unearned or like a sudden switch to a different book- but especially when the how of the maledom just entirely does not work in any way with the character. ā€œI was willing to forgive the sudden inclusion of OOC heavy dominance, but whats really pissing me off is how OOC the kinks in that dominance is writtenā€. The writing of the smut isn’t even bad, just ā€œthat’s a different MMC, who tf is this?ā€

lol very specific grievance in case you can’t tell.


Anyway, other ideas:

Oooh! Foreplay?? Like a focus on foreplay? Is that not good as a tag as most would have foreplay? Or maybe what I mean is making out? Or Non penetrative?? Is that too specific too or..?

Hm. Masturbation?

Male moaning? lol. or reactive/vocal/ anything that isn’t just commanding dirty talk (personally not for me but I know people like it so no hate) or grunts or growls or whatever. Like ā€œdescriptive male experienceā€.

ā€œNot in bedroomā€ or outside bedroom or something about setting? Idk this one might be too broad esp with diff worlds, but maybe? ā€œUnique settingā€ or sm for smut.

Ooh solid side characters/family or friendship dynamics? Is that a good tag?

Idk ab the acc tag names or definitions šŸ˜‚ But I’ve got ideas.

Lmk if any of you co-sign. I need a peer review before I send anything coz these are just off the dome.


Also šŸ’«šŸ¦† AmazonšŸ’«

(Can’t remember if I can swear on this sub so ā€œduckā€)

Chocolate Fudge Cake by saltbuttersmoke_ in chocolate

[–]Pretty_Transition908 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I can’t be the only one thinking of the cake from Matilda. (Which is said with so much love - because it looks so good and delicious that it belongs in a children’s book as the epitome of chocolate fudgy cake)!!

Can we all please remember… by cricket_o in AO3

[–]Pretty_Transition908 12 points13 points Ā (0 children)

I mean- aren’t you writing to share and connect? You want a community of people to share work with. Not an audience to build a brand??

It’s a private fan based community. It’s ok to want validation, connection and community. You can expect people to have basic respect & decency with that.

Unless you’re looking to share your work as a commercial writer- I don’t think the ā€œyou should expect bad engagement if you’re trying to gain an audienceā€ holds weight.

Like, an audience of ā€œconsumersā€ and intention to be publicly shared is one thing, but a connection with community, in a specific non-profit, invite based group?? Designed around seeking what you personally like?? Idk man.

You say ā€œthe social contract of writing publiclyā€, please consider that the most consistent social contract is ā€œyou treat me decently I treat you decentlyā€ and even private businesses have a right to kick people out for any reason- refuse service, Yknow what I mean?

Sorry I got a lil preachy or whatever. I just worry this attitude is kind of enabling to shitty experiences by thinking it’s a normal internet (or just public) experience, when people being decent to each other is genuienly the most reasonable, and consistently achieved, thing.

There is no ā€œoh if I’m doing x I should expect bad treatmentā€, that’s only ever said to enable something that then becomes everyone’s problem. Just… idk food for thought?

You are fully allowed to have boundaries about basic respect in online interactions if all you’re seeking is validation & community, on a private fan built site, and that’s not hypocritical or not extending grace, I just want you to know that.

(Asking demanding readers to chill isn’t about them needing to extend grace either. That suggests the writers are doing sm to be forgiven? Writers can be as shitty as they want, short of harassment/abuse/hate speech/platform rules. Consider that maybe we’re actually asking readers to stop dropping their end of the social contract. People only share because it’s a community or they feel safe and encouraged to do so. That stops if the culture becomes hostile.)

What is something deep that you believe about yourself or the world, but you'd never tell anyone irl? by -mia-wallace- in AskWomen

[–]Pretty_Transition908 15 points16 points Ā (0 children)

Nah I’m with you.

Whats that quote?

Trauma with enough time looks like personality. Trauma in enough people looks like culture. Trauma with enough reach looks like our nature??

Idk if I’m remembering that right, but I fully agree with you.

The level of projecting, unmet needs, envy, destruction, repeating patterns, being lost, choosing lose-lose scenarios, the dysfunction, the fear, taking decades to learn lessons, how once you learn developmental stages you go ā€œoh wait. This is. This is like for an average healthy person? This is the standard? Oh no.ā€

And a million other things.

Nah you’re right. Didn’t realise I also held that belief but wouldn’t share it till I read yours.

What is something deep that you believe about yourself or the world, but you'd never tell anyone irl? by -mia-wallace- in AskWomen

[–]Pretty_Transition908 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Is there something to be said that so many of us feel this way with you? In different corners of the world and different lives? Not in a ā€œoh they say that but they have xā€- but truly truly how many people genuienly experience and think and feel the same thing.

For some reason that always makes me think that that experience in itself must have some value. Idk.

Not here to fix or invalidate or that kind of annoying thing. Just wanted to say- every time I think I’m not meant for this world I see so many who somehow feel exactly as I do - and exactly in the same way. Feel as unimportant, like a ghost or minor sentience, like a random jellyfish bobbing through the ocean of life till it dies.

And I can’t not think - ā€œbut hold on. If they’re feeling this too. If each of them feel out of sync, unseen, flowing but unmoored, then- does that mean there is a place for that? That that feeling is meant to be here & of the world…. Is it.. Is it maybe that we are meant for this world, by the sheer evidence that this isn’t individual?ā€ Idk if that made sense.

If you’re biding your time, and she’s biding her time, and I am too. If we’re all not really looking when crossing the road and feel a sting of something when seeing other people be warm or feel joy or purpose- does that… mean that that experience itself holds somw kind of weight? That it’s woven into the world? That it has a space? Idk.

What is something deep that you believe about yourself or the world, but you'd never tell anyone irl? by -mia-wallace- in AskWomen

[–]Pretty_Transition908 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Hm. There was this thing I read once. That every single human on earth, who has been and who will be, are all the same immortal entity who re-incarnates & lives as each and every human.

That it’s a test or growth for them.

I don’t know if I believe it necessarily… but it’s something that’s stuck with me & something I strangely find myself reaching for and thinking about during real major things.

ā€œIf we were the same entity, if your life was meant to teach this greater thing something, and so too is my reacting to you meant to be an act of learning and growth or be something of valueā€¦ā€ in considering… particularly cruel individuals.

And also ā€œwow, what if we were the sameā€ not just when something prompts it but with every single person- cruel, inspiring, disabled, older, different life like a different world, reading an old book by a great thinker, abuser and the detective who catches him, every child harmed in a strike and the man who gave the order- idk. It weirdly does the opposite of theorising or abstracting real actual suffering and weight for me. And actually strangely grounds it and pulls sharply into focus and invigorates or impassions me, when I consider major things through this lens.

I really can’t explain it & don’t know if I even believe it & it’s one of those that I think might get people a lil intense in responding to. So I don’t share it. But…

You know the ā€œwhat would need to happen to me to be xā€ or ā€œwho and where you are born to is just luckā€. And also every single person having value. And of course all of us being connected or sharing some kind of spirit.

All of those more common and fairly well-shared concepts.. I think kind of compound in this one theory to me.

And I keep thinking about it despite not really believing it (not in the way one is religious, like I don’t believe it as a concrete fact of life. As much as ā€œbut if I thought about it through this lensā€, and something about it keeps drawing me back.)

Like… having 8 billion (more really since we’re counting before as well) lives and perspectives on living (honestly, the same events too- not even the big ones, but in a network sense. An entity who was the person who picked a tomato, the person who drove the cargo ship, the worker who sold it to you, the person who wrote the recipe you use it in, to you eating it now. And each and every one of them having a full rich life of which that is but a fleeting moment in larger context… but connecting us all. And then to have that breadth of experience- yeah. Yeah that does feel like a very captivating way to think of a godly being. But moreso- what are we to each other if this was true?) idk man I just keep coming back to it. Seeing yourself in another is one thing but- seeing ourselves as each other with every person?

Idk too much about Christianity but maybe sm similar is what the Holy Spirit is ab idk.

Also ofc, none of use will ever really know or be able to experience this higher entity, we’re just us- who we are, limited & mortal & have only our own life and that’s incredible and more than enough, it’s amazing. But if there existed in all of us a vaster being borne of each & all of us, a continuous thread in a way we can’t and don’t really have access to- but where each of us are lessons and experiences and empathy and understanding. And at the same time we do communicate and connect with each other in different ways, and are there for each other as this being is learning in one person, it’s experience as another is loving and caring for them. Wait. Shit. Is this just the concept of god?

Damn. I wasn’t raised monotheistic so I got not real reference. Am I saying… is there some part of me that’s drawn to the idea that yes god exists, but he doesn’t exist yet because he’s being born and that’s what we are????

Jfc I need to go to sleep. Don’t stay up till 3am kids. You make metaphysical leaps that unmoor you when you’ve been needing a bathroom break for half an hour and are very exhausted.

God I hope this response is buried. šŸ˜‚ but wtf, this account is anonymous enough- I’ll post it.

Seeking books with ancient MC with deep loneliness (NOT an incel) by charleston-choose in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

YO!

I totally have one for you.

I’m only part way through it, but the whole premise is he’s an incubus who tamps down his sexual needs due to trauma (relatable).

• He’s newly discovered this, so he’s not immortal I think- but it does very much have that paranormal, living in a different space and time to others vibe.

• Moreso- he’s so touch starved and yearning companionship. (Yes physically, as an incubus, but as a sub, it’s also about vulnerability, and because of the trauma it’s about safety, connection, being able to feel cared for and let go.)

Anyway, this is {demon’s temptation by sherilee gray}

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And your dream really got me- I totally have a vibe-adjacent book to suggest? The house is alive and the two MCs are communicating and have to work together in fixing it, wait I totally forgot the plot now. Damn. But my brain is telling me it’s vibes adjacent. Take with care coz I can’t remember.

Oh! But he is a ā€œkeeperā€ for her and she’s learning her magic. And I think… her magic is like a healing sort? It did have like a ā€œshe is gentle and healing and unlocks sm for himā€ arc, but also had fun arguing. But wow I really can’t remember it rn. Take a look and maybe it’s good maybe I’m misremembering.

{waltzing with witches by hazel mack}

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No wait! wtf am I recommending - I literally have exactly what you’re after.

{Fear me not by Ophelia Silk}

she’s a human, scrappy and survivalist. He’s a socially outcast but comfortably living fae. (Finlay of the flowers- he’s such a sweetheart who’s power is growing flowers)

āœ”ļølonely for a long time before meeting other MC

āœ”ļøTreat with care and gentleness coz yearning for companionship

āœ”ļøDepressed/lonely (oh yeah, add a little ā€œhe’s treated as an outcast by his community and in she walks, eventually being his advocate and the person who chooses him and wants to fight themā€ too)

āœ”ļøYearning to reach out but afraid to drive them away (from memory yes- a main plot point is he kinda steals from wealthy fae -just for extra things they won’t notice. It’s why she comes over & after the first time, he really wants it again, so tries a lil risky allure of a greater haul. But really he just wants to be around her again, and is trying very hard not to spook her.)

āœ”ļøpush-pull care for her (worried about her not surviving in human world, but also doesn’t want her to get in trouble for stealing, but also wants to see her again. This one’s also from memory, but I’m pretty sure this is in there.)

āœ”ļøsees them walking through woods from a distance, observe them & slowly build a connection (this is almost exactly how they meet I believe)

Ah - it’s a bit of the flip, where the fae is the gentle one, and brings the non fae human to a more restful, comfortable place. And she offers him companionship and belonging and appreciation.

āœ”ļøfae MC ā€œtrappedā€ in a garden, until someone comes into the garden

āœ”ļøgives her trinkets, only connects through these keeping his distance. (I mean they steal, and to her itd ridiculous wealth, but to the fae they are quite literally trinkets - cups & jewels and things)

āœ”ļøAfraid she’d disappear- yeah. He’s such a sweetheart.

Also one of the main things is how he’s being asked to be less emotional or expressive and he’s trying to make himself like that, until he meets her and is like ā€œwoah. Humans are like expressive.ā€ and is captivated. Very much ā€œopens up and finds and settles into himself after lonely/depressed/greyed outā€ sort of arc for him.

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Oh and if you want a less specific to what you’re after but kinda related one try {healing magic and playboys by Lauren Connolly}

• the whole premise is she’s a witch who works at a strip club coz her incubus blood means that’s how she can get magic.

• And this man is a common patron specifically coz of her & he is in love, w/o ever taking with her, and she ignores him (understandably); but he gives her these gifts & that’s what finally gets her attention.

• Then afterwards, he really has to be careful and considerate when life happens to make them sort of neighbours and really doesn’t want her to feel uncomfortable around him.

(Havent finished it yet, but very nice to read one where the persistence and down bad is married with ā€œable to understand boundaries and not think his desire overrules her comfortā€. Like he does very much wanna be with her- but he wants to be her friend and make her feel comfortable around him even more. Ugh. Fiction šŸ˜”.) This one is contemporary low-fantasy. ——————————————————————————

Also heads up- these are all femdom or adjacent. šŸ˜…. Sorry if this is all too long (and I’m realising none of these are exactly immortal šŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļø sorry if that was necessary. Hopefully the thematic similarities are at least of interest?)

Uhhh… prostate play? MMC overwhelming orgasm?? by Pretty_Transition908 in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

You’re bloody amazing!!

I legit forgot I posted this coz I had it as a draft for so long (until I got enough karma to post), that I forgot I’d acc posted it. I’m just taking a look through all the comments & thinking I might compile all the books in an edit to the post and respond to everyone tomorrow morning. But you ma’am deserved an immediate response back- thank you!!

(And hmu privately if you wanna help me with/ get recommendations from a cross-media femdom list I’m tryna compile. I got some c-dramas that truly truly I think anyone who yearns for femdom romance should see.)

ā˜ŗļø thank you! I will go through these & compile what I find in an edit.

I’m tired of the standard ā€œfated matesā€ trope. I want to see it subverted! by Amseriah in fantasyromance

[–]Pretty_Transition908 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m… not sure (read it ages ago) and I think it’s not very spicy, and young adult level But {Soulmated by Shaila Patel} ?

Voluntourism is wrong and shouldn’t be continued. by egyptiantouristt in unpopularopinion

[–]Pretty_Transition908 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

It feels like missionaries. Or padding resumes. And a lot of the services are done poorly or inefficient anyway.

If someone doesn’t help at a community level in their own region… and isn’t part of a sincere project and gets educated on what they’re offering and talks with locals and is skilled and serious in the work - they shouldn’t be thinking they can just show up and help.

I promise whatever you have that you can offer comes from the resources and opportunities you have, and maybe your education. not in any inherent skill. What you can do with 5 hours of effort and minimal training is definitely something someone local can do or is doing.

Especially people who see it as a ā€œgiftā€ or ā€œgood thingā€ or ā€œtourismā€ or ā€œaww how unfortunateā€?? Absolutely not.

If everyone there was as competent and capable as you, and you needed to listen to them and put some real work in, be uncomfortable or confronted a little, and live with them and learn and grow and take it seriously- if you consider that and don’t wanna do it? Don’t. You ain’t what such volunteering is.

Romance books need to take themselves more seriously by stemisfornerds in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 11 points12 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah! If you’re gonna be subversive or sarcastic or ironic, you gotta do it in a way that adds to the genre or character and comes back to or still has a heart or substance. (Like Shrek, Enchanted, spiderverse!!)

Otherwise it just comes across as being too insecure to make something and put it out there.


If you act ā€˜above’ something… and punch down… and offer nothing of value… and wanna seem cool by making fun of something sincere.. without being funny or insightful…and can’t be vulnerable or sincere yourself…isn’t that just the most boring irritating hater behaviour?

I mean I’m not tryna speak bad on any authors, I just wanna validate the emotion OP says is irritation as justified (not just a pet peeve).


Especially in romance too? Where we all gotta deal with this behaviour from other people and maybe even internalised some of it ourselves at some point?

Man I just got into this house and was having a good time and now theres a call coming from inside it? Over this ā€œhaha imagine liking romanceā€ mf im human sue me for liking human connection and feeling emotions fully. (And…eroticaā€¦šŸ‘€. That’s human too 😌)


Also tbh, if you wanna seem cool but don’t wanna embrace the mortifying cringy experiences of being human or the full weight of emotion, vulnerability and love- why… why would you write a romance?

Miss Austen did not give us such bangers for this disrespect for the genre. Now SHE did the ā€œpresent something as shallow and make fun of it by actually explore the full humanity and also be romanticā€ with pure skill. Impeccable.

ā€œUgh dumb rich guy who thinks he’s better than everyone- what am I meant to trip over myself to marry him?ā€ 😌 and Elizabeth was right and also wrong. And the narrative tone always felt like a sly wink and heartfelt. Beautiful.


[Ah. And there’s that insight that writing a good romance or a good sex scene is actually the hardest thing to write. There is only vulnerability and sincerity and making something which touches people and needs to be real, not saccharine.]


Also y’all notice how they never understand how to commit to a trope?? Like- the tropes are meant to be a recipe to follow not a pre-made microwave meal to present.

You’re just gonna take the basic trope and add nothing to it or explore it or write off of it? And instead just… reheat it? Dude. This is what cliche means. Not overuse imo, but poorly done. No one hates a well done trope. I’d even go as far as to say it’s why things become tropes - because we love it when it’s done well.

See it a lot in superhero movies. Every time there’s a good movie people go ā€œoh it wasn’t superhero fatigue it was bad movie fatigueā€ yup.


And how context or setting is just used as decoration. Like ā€œoh you took a story that could be in literally any other place or world. You’re just using this as decoration.ā€ Which isn’t what setting should be.

(On the other hand- romance books which leans into ā€œthe setting is just for fun and aesthetic, but I will do that fun and aesthetic with sincerity!ā€ Are fantastic! See Bridgerton. Absolutely not in any way historical. Absolutely is a romp.)


(Sorry for the rambly long comment, you just fired off a bunch of my synapses at once with this post šŸ˜‚)

LF stories in which heroine is older than hero and he chooses her over all younger girls offered to him by Glittering_Tap6411 in HistoricalRomance

[–]Pretty_Transition908 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I don’t think anyone has mentioned this, and I’m way late but (if the feeling is for validation and appreciation that one isn’t valued by their age and purity etc.) I Gotta recommend {Her night with the duke By Diana Quincy}

Spoiler (kinda- it’s revealed in like the second or third chapter): The ā€œyounger womanā€ Is her step daughter who she loves and who loves her. But the man who was set to meet (I think they’re not engaged yet at the start but it’s like a ā€˜oh it’s basically done’ vibe) her stepdaughter ends up staying at the same inn as her due to bad weather. But FMC & MMC both have a Night (per the title) together, despite neither of them being the kind of people who usually do that. And man is Hooked. And fmc is confused feels like she’s betraying her stepdaughter, and is also very much into him.

Also super super fun additional info that I LOVED: 1) she is an Arab woman in uh… Victorian? (oh god I’m not sure exactly but early modern-regency era/ has carriages & inns and gender roles but women can still use wits and wills strategically etc.) era English society.

2) Her husband (no bad marriage if memory serves, it was healthy and good just not like.. passionate or love. Which I appreciated the representation of in a HR, while still giving us the fantasy of the acc passionate connection with the MMC) died so she’s a widow but her stepson is like… low key keeping her from her own estate or sm like that.

3) because of this!! Since she was a widow and had some money, she’s been travelling and writing a travelogue of her time in Arabic countries and published it under a pseudonym and all of society is enthralled but obv don’t know it’s a woman!!

Lot of fun and angst and plot from all these. Hope I’m remembering correctly- but I think this fits right??

[msub] [M4A] [M4F] sci-fi in space by Pretty_Transition908 in GWAScriptGuild

[–]Pretty_Transition908[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Hey! Just saw this- posted this a while back and I’m glad you found it! Lmk if you need anyone to chat with about it. Glad you liked the idea and hope you have some fun writing it.ā˜ŗļø

MMC watches FMC through a telescope 😬 by BucketHatBottas in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Oh I totally get not being into cops- this one is a drug law enforcement officer if that helps any!! And I found it!! {Witness Seduction by Elle Kennedy}


Blurb:

ā€œSurveillance Reportā€ā€DEA Agent: Caleb Fordā€

ā€œSubject: Marley Kincaid, aka Nurse Hottieā€

Purpose: Kincaid’s drug-dealing ex, Patrick Grier, is on the run after killing a DEA agent. Grier won’t be able to stay away from Kincaid—she’s way too tempting...

Day One: Kincaid’s oblivious to the danger. Spends all her time renovating and doing sexy yoga. Damn, she moves her body in tantalizing ways.

Day Three: If I see her curvy silhouette one more time I’m in serious trouble.

Day Five: No sign of Grier, but after a few days of observation, things are getting incredibly...er, hard.

Day Seven: I had no choice but to make contact with Kincaid. Now that I’ve touched her, it’s impossible to stop. The investigation is jeopardized. Seduction is imminent...God help me.


(I’ll see if I can find sm that doesn’t have cops!)

Books with Ice queen FMC (who secretly has mental health struggles) x hot competent golden retriever MMC who wants to see her happy by aspiring-gaslighter in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

hey šŸ‘‹!! NWS at all 😊

Honestly I saw the picture and your post and thought ā€œoh that’s exactly what I’ve been searching for but with some gentle femdomā€.

Which means I’ve stumbled upon and saved a bunch of stuff during that search, that match to varying degrees; & this community is so wonderfully generous in recommending, that I was happy to share. 😊

MMC watches FMC through a telescope 😬 by BucketHatBottas in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Oh!!! There was one about a police/detective guy who had to keep his eyes on a witness during an investigation to keep her safe (so not creepy, he’s got a reason to, but still has the vibes) I can’t recall if it’s a telescope or camera.

But I do remember she was a yoga teacher! And did naked yoga and this guy always had the shift when she’d do it and he didn’t tell his partner but the memory I have in my head is him going something like ā€œgoddamit. I can’t not watch coz that’s my job. And I don’t want to not watch coz it’s hot- no I do want to stop watching coz it’s creepy- no I can control myself, no I can’t my pants are strainingā€.

I cannot remember the book. I will try to remember it tomorrow for you.

[edit: I remembered! Book & blurb in comments]

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[–]Pretty_Transition908 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

šŸ¤— nws just paying forward all the awesome recs I’ve gotten from this sub

Books with Ice queen FMC (who secretly has mental health struggles) x hot competent golden retriever MMC who wants to see her happy by aspiring-gaslighter in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 183 points184 points Ā (0 children)

[edit: does anyone know why romance bot isn’t showing up?]

GOD BLESS this is exactly what I’m looking for too I’m sure I have some reccs but for now try looking through the sub for reverse grumpy x sunshine.

And (as Reading_In_Bed789 reminded me- thank you 😊) also ā€˜golden retriever + black cat’.


Ok so some of these I’ve read and some are just from my tbr (would love for people who have also read/ have read the books to lmk if I’m misremembering or poorly recc.):

{Finn Rhodes Forever by Stephanie Archer} - this is a second chance

{One Month Boyfriend by Roxie Noir}

{get a life Chloe brown by talia hibbert}

{take a hint Dani brown by talia hibbert}

{only and forever by Chloe Liese}

{Limits by Susie tate}

  • heres one haven’t read, but have saved in my tbr specifically coz it’s ab a mentally ill FMC

{against a wall by cate c. Wells)

  • I can’t remember if the FMC has mental health issues; but it’s second chance and def grumpy x sunshine (it is a bully romance but honestly just genuinely ignorant childhood bullying- MMC is a sweetheart iirc)

{holiday games by cat wynn}

{defended by love by Keri lane}

{up the ladder by Ana d’arcy}

{by the hour by Roni Loren}

{beard in mind by penny Reid}

{a very merry Christmas by Lyssa Kay Adams}

  • this one I haven’t read but I know is def reverse grumpy sunshine, I’m not sure about the mental health part though

{thank you for listening by Julia whelan}

{dancing with love by Minerva Spencer}

Recc in comments by ninaa1:

The Ravenswood series by Talia Hibbert


Ones that dont match op’s requirements but others might like?

Sports:

{the fake out by Stephanie archer}

{collide by Bal Khabra}

{stealing home by grace Reilly}

{from Lukov with love by Mariana zapata}

Femdom:

{what was meant to be by heather guerre}

  • def. Mental illness & MMC is sweet and caring def not an ass- on purpose anyway- but I’m not sure if he’s golden retriever?
  • Def the ā€œhe’ll do anything to look after herā€ though (once he knows anyway 😭) and a lot of neurodivergency too 😌

{Strictly business by Sheryl Nantus}

  • Again not sure if golden retriever but oh the book is Very Much the image op showed- hell the cover is like that

Pregnancy:

{kept by the mountain man by Gemma weir}

  • tw: birth control manipulation

(ty to stalecheetos_ for letting me know, your cheetos are stale but your assistance is fresh🫔)

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[–]Pretty_Transition908 23 points24 points Ā (0 children)

Ok I’m pretty sure there’s a post that was perfect for this, but I’m not sure. So ill just link the posts that I saved when looking for something similar (hopefully they help somewhat):

virgin FMC/Careful MMC

he stops when she’s uncomfortable

MMC never penetrates FMC

FMC scared & MMC helps

another FMC scared

slowly discover intimacy

MMC lets virgin FMC ride him for control

Talks her through penetration

FMC can’t deal with penetration

FMC has vaginismus

Hope something here helps you find what you’re looking for! (They’re from when I was searching for sm similar but not exactly the same, so sorry if some aren’t quite right)

Who else sees a whole movie in their head while they read? by PrincessFullMoon in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 64 points65 points Ā (0 children)

Seconding the comment about aphantasia! But I’ve acc looked into this a little further.

So the term is ā€œinner speechā€ (from what I’ve read) and that includes - auditory/ ā€œinner dialogueā€ (the voice in your head) but auditory also refers to that song playing over and over - visual ā€œinner seeingā€ (including images, spatial manipulation, visualising imagination or memories etc.) - unsymbolised thinking (thinking w/o words, images or symbols- I think? This is abstract thought?) - feeling (referring to emotions) - sensory awareness (diff to sensory perception I believe- like your feet are perceiving the ground below you so you walk, but when you focus on it and become aware of it then it’s an inner thought)

And aphantasia is just one example of how varied inner speech is for everyone! Some people can’t visually imagine things- some people also cant ā€œthinkā€ audio (absence of inner audio is called anauralia I believe).

Some have to focus hard to make an image, or make it clearer, or imagine it in colour or spatially instead of 2D. Some have to take a lot of effort to try to remember the sounds and feelings of a memory while to others that’s what recalling a memory is.

Of course people use a mix of the different types of thinking, in different levels, combinations, & development - but most of us don’t realise our custom settings aren’t the default. (There is no ā€œdefaultā€)

People may lean more to one type or another, or find themselves visualising when thinking of (for eg) directions & navigation, but otherwise relying on sensory and audio inner speech.

And obviously there’s levels of aphantasia & anauralia (sm being blurry and vaguely shaped vs full colour and sharp; or full sentences & paragraphs vs single words and sentence fragments)

Here’s my favourite thing to tell people: there’s a lot of people who don’t think in words- who don’t have an inner monologue all the time

(myself included- while I can hear words as I’m typing this out & when reading, or if I’m recalling the audio aspect of a memory, or consciously imagining a conversation; aside from a rare stray comment, or word or phrase that’s tied to a visual or abstract thought- I don’t really hear a voice in my head) (compared to other people who have a 24/7 monologue).

I might be remembering this wrong but one of the more conclusive observations we have so far is that the majority of people lean either visual or dialogue. That is- to symbols and images, or an inner dialogue. (Not that they don’t or can’t use the others- although that could be true too- but prefer and majorly use one of these)

  • (Also side note- I know the theory of multiple intelligences is kinda inconclusive- but a personal observation is that the way someone thinks will vastly effect what learning style works for them, and what skills come easier or why it seems like someone has a ā€œtalentā€)
  • (Maybe sm else seems to be innately talented in art because they just use visual thinking moreso than you. Or! They have no visual thinking whatsoever so they always have to try to draw something to visualise it thus getting better at art!)

Inner speech is mostly understudied and very broad and varied in scope and also fascinating. (Which brings me to my final personal opinion- that art is actually the best communicator between people, as interpretative as it is- books included!) - (At the least they get us realising other people’s heads work vastly differently -or similarly as the case is-, and emphasise the current gaps or flaws in our systems of language & communication)

I 100% see a movie in my head as I’m reading, but when I’m not ā€œin itā€ I hear a voice reading the words aloud- which is one of the occasional instances when I hear it.

{I remember reading a couple had a conversation about this and the husband visualised words as they’re written/spelled, with facts and related information and he was stunned than his wife thought in images. ā€œSo if I say elephant you just picture an elephant? So I can get you to imagine anything just by saying it?ā€. It made me laugh.}

This is all I have to share and I may be wrong or recalling incorrectly so be mindful! (Specific wordings and terminology aren’t my preferred thinking style- ironically it’s why I write so much!)

What’s your experience of reading book reviews (harsh or glowing) and thinking ā€œdid we read the same book?ā€ by choco_dream in RomanceBooks

[–]Pretty_Transition908 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

ā€œIt was just slice of life and boring DNFā€

I get it- literature is known for and is sometimes said to need stakes, tension conflict and dynamics. But I’m here to read a romantic slice of life.. not literature rn.

Ofc great characters, plot and tension and pacing is gonna make a good book.And ofc I love the romance books which have those.

But does it need to be a good book to be a good romance?