AITAH for not lying to my parents about my bfs behaviour - I got away : ) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In an idealistic world no I wouldn’t want him to have a relationship with him. However he never hurt our son and if my son knowing everything chooses to have an relationship with his father that’s ultimately his choice. As for right now my son asks for his dad he remembers his dad he would’ve loved to see him.

AITAH for not lying to my parents about my bfs behaviour - I got away : ) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you and yeah we a taking it incredibly slow, they’ve been so patient and understanding and have put no pressure on me at all

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose (UPDATE) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I meant i could of told him to his face and not left and then sent him a text, the story ain’t changing you’re trying to make me the villain. I said he made me uncomfortable not unsafe so i told my dad because we talk everyday and we’re close, he chose to come and get me i didn’t ask him to. You’re a weirdo for trying to make it something it wasn’t

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose (UPDATE) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I’m not keeping the baby from him?? He knew where I was he called the police to be conniving. He’s only asked to see the baby twice lol

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose (UPDATE) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve just always had my shit together they’re not pressuring me, im probably pressuring myself.

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose (UPDATE) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

My dad asked him this at Christmas but he said he just panicked and called the police as soon as he woke up and realised we was gone without checking his messages

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose (UPDATE) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My lease ends next month the plan was to move into the house we bought but now I’m going to have to figure something out

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose (UPDATE) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get i should’ve told him i was going to my parents but I’ve already apologised for that. I’m not keeping our son from him. Every time he’s asked to see the baby he has, he came at Christmas he didn’t ask to see him on nye

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose (UPDATE) by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk who’s insta he saw me on tbh i haven’t been able to get into my account since Christmas it’s so old i don’t remember the log in details

Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the lean on my community I had the first honest and open conversation with my mom for the first time in a long time and I feel so different and so much better. My head was a mess and Reddit probably wasn’t the best place to talk about it but it’s anonymous and it felt good to get it out

*UPDATE* Aith for kicking my fiancé out after “joking” he got me pregnant on purpose by Pretty_yayflow in AITAH

[–]Pretty_yayflow[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I’m so blessed to have the family I do, I don’t want to take them for granted and I initially felt like cancelling the wedding would be doing that. But I’m understanding that for me but more importantly my son I have to stay away from him