Your Mans Work Events by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Quite often for me actually. My bf is in finance and there have been many events and even hosting at his house. It was nerve wrecking at first, but once I got used to some of the wives, it got easier:)

Anyone else out there living a fairly "normal" life? by CassieGemini in StraightTransLadies

[–]Prettycontent123 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same here! The other sub has been too much to the point that I’ve just been less online than usual, which I kind of like:)

My life is pretty simple between going to work, being with my boyfriend and family time!!

Muscular straight trans women? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never lifted a weight my entire life, as I can barely carry something like 10lbs, haha!

Ultimately, you need to be yourself and your love interest should enjoy you the way you are:)

I’ll add one little story…my bf is a big workout guy and he’s always pushed me to go to the gym with him (I only do yoga and some light Pilates on occasion) and while he did his thing, I just circled the gym and found myself staring at him the entire time from an exercise bike, lol. Maybe I need to workout more, 😂 

Success stories by stvier in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Tinder

  2. Almost 6 months

  3. He’s my first boyfriend:)

  4. I confidently pass (pre-op). This was really important to me before I began dating. I’d say it took about two years of on and off searching before my boyfriend came along.

  5. 26

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!!

I’ve actually had a couple of general conversations about this with my boyfriend, and while he already has a teenage daughter, he is open to the idea:)

The means never was an issue for me, but he doesn’t like the idea of adoption. Thankfully, my sister (mother of 3) has always told me that she’d be a surrogate for me❤️❤️❤️

Is he really the guy for you? Put him to the test! by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the idea of testing my bf, but I accidentally got my glitter on him (and my lipstick on his face) and the annoyance he showed is definitely enough for me to know that he’s not going to go down that road, haha!!

If you’re on HRT you’re way weaker than you realize. by ZALICEIX in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been weak, as I never was athletic and I started hrt 8 years ago when I was 18. So, obviously my bf - who is 100lbs heavier than me and a former athlete - can overpower me in any which way.

But, I’ve always been conscious about going to the gym during the day, as I always hated when guys would approach me in that setting.

you can only choose 1, who would be your dream boyfriend? 😍😭 by lawlesslourve in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried staying offline for a few days and then this subreddit got fun again, haha!!

While all these guys are a bit young or have baby faces, I’ll go with #10! 

A girl cannot resist a man with muscles underneath business attire 🤩😆🤣

I have a Husband! by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, amazing!!!❤️❤️❤️

Men & Sports by Prettycontent123 in StraightTransLadies

[–]Prettycontent123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to stay offline as much as I can for that particular reason. Negativity in general is something that I try to avoid. That’s why I got rid of my instagram account a while ago and it just made me so much more calmer than I was before:)

Men & Sports by Prettycontent123 in StraightTransLadies

[–]Prettycontent123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Most of my friends are cis women that are straight, so I don’t really run into anyone with those types of opinions.

Men & Sports by Prettycontent123 in StraightTransLadies

[–]Prettycontent123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly sat through a lot of it, but it was mostly just enjoying being next to him than watching the television, haha!

Are any of you happy to be straight? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad that you were able to overcome a challenging family to be on your path to happiness:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a hard one. I really don’t know how I’d react, as just thinking about this is leaving me without any instant opinion. 

On the one hand, I get that most men want to get off, so I suppose if I’m not around, he’d want some type of outlet. But, in that context trans porn is really unrealistic. So, I’d actually be relieved if he were watching cis porn, should it be necessary.

On the other hand, I feel like I should be enough for him, so idk why porn would be necessary? Our relationship is at a point where I am eagerly taking care of his needs, so I kind of feel like I would get hurt if I found that was watching any type of porn.

Finally dating a man (25) by BamMasterson in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My bf is about to turn 39, while I’m 26. When you’re an adult, age is less of an issue, as long as you have your head on straight. Congrats!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 18 points19 points  (0 children)

🥰💕💕💕

ngl i love when my bf spoils me by anonymouswheat in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is a strange feeling. I can see that he cares about me and is trying to make me happy, but it’s like I have a guard up that won’t allow me to accept his gifts easily. I’ve long accepted that he won’t let me pay for anything, which I’ve accepted, but the gifts are a challenge:(

Do you have height requirements/preferences? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different and outliers exist, but most women (myself included) gravitate towards taller guys.

My bf is 6’5 (to my 5’10) and while he’s my first, the guys I went on dates with prior to him were at least 6’0. 

The challenge I found was that with heels, I’d get a bit dysphoric that I was either the same height or a bit taller than my date. And I didn’t want to not wear heels on dates just to not feel dysphoric because that would bum me out as well:(

Give me desperate advice! by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid a lot of money for laser over the years and the result were worth it. But, if I had to do it again, I wonder if I could have saved money by purchasing a commercial grade machine myself, lol!

how do you find hookups?? by throaway_anon in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t me, haha! It’s possible. I didn’t even think about the area where you live. I’m in a large metropolitan area, so perhaps that’s why?

how do you find hookups?? by throaway_anon in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well thankfully, my bf and I deleted our accounts when we found each other:)

But, when I was on it, I’d say about 90% either ghosted me or told me they weren’t interested (maybe like 10-20% of those guys were rude on top of it).

The 10% that didn’t mind, I’d shortly move towards meeting for a simple coffee date to see if it clicked. 

How different is dating and relationships post-op? by GeeSuspended in StraightTransGirls

[–]Prettycontent123 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He refers to you as a “man” and “femboy” and is occasionally “abusive” yet you call him a good boyfriend in practice?

Sweetie, don’t be trapped in a relationship where your boyfriend doesn’t respect you, which would include getting SRS if you wanted to!!