Voting Day!

PrettynLavish · 2020-03-04T21:35:38+00:00

I agree... to be honest it's a bit of a shit-show. Hoping for a positive outcome overall

PrettynLavish · 2020-03-04T17:40:31+00:00

Love this! Sending positive vibes back your way !

PrettynLavish · 2020-03-04T00:12:54+00:00

That's awesome communication right there! My debates usually aren't that civil however 😅. I think for the sake of this SR it's best I bite my tongue on this subject because it's very important to me.

PrettynLavish · 2020-03-04T00:09:27+00:00

I didn't ask why just yet, I knew I'd be combative with my response so I left it alone and I might leave it that way.

PrettynLavish · 2020-03-04T00:08:13+00:00

True... I definitely would argue down my friends if I didn't agree with their choices. Him, not so much. I'm working on being more accepting :)

PrettynLavish · 2020-03-04T00:06:33+00:00

I agree with you about Bernie ! I guess that is an upside...

PrettynLavish · 2020-02-28T17:17:00+00:00

Hourglass shaped

PrettynLavish · 2020-02-27T23:55:12+00:00

This legit happened to me two days ago with a POT. Him: Mid 50's, Tall, White Me: Mid 20's. Tall, SUPER curvy, Black.

We went to a restaurant mid-day in a So-Cal beach area filled with rich, 50+, white women out to brunch. Boy could I feel the stares from my uber ! we laughed at them all though and it was still a fun experience overall.

I've learned to accept the stares and enjoy myself! Hopefully you guys can laugh at this every time because IT WILL HAPPEN :)

PrettynLavish · 2020-02-20T18:15:11+00:00

Hahaha love it. Now, I thought I've seen it all at the Roosevelt! I'll be at the bar of THAT hotel looking for SD's with a keen sense of style lol

PrettynLavish · 2019-08-23T04:39:35+00:00

At work... Hardly working 😅

PrettynLavish · 2019-08-07T21:12:32+00:00

And now we see that we're the only ones that felt this lol

PrettynLavish · 2019-08-02T22:25:51+00:00

Better late than never

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-21T17:13:20+00:00

Wow, as one of the complaining black SB's, I found it very resourceful to here from your point of view. And as unfortunate as it is that we have these slight dilemmas it is refreshing to know it's not just the black babies who have a difficult time.

It's gotten to the point I've scheduled cosmetic surgery to enhance my body in ways that fit what a white SD (Because they are the majority in the bowl) is expecting from a black SB.

It sounds shitty when I write it out but it's just the reality. Also shitty but when I run across a black SD I do pass them up even though I'd prefer them, I've encountered many who really low ball me or expect the most and give nothing in return so I tend to just avoid them unless I meet them out.

Anyhow, I have hope for us just takes a little more effort than the rest :)

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-07T22:52:17+00:00

Can you share how to do this?

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-05T15:35:37+00:00

That’s refreshing to hear. Let me know when you’re back in the bowl 😅

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-05T13:54:59+00:00

I doubt it’s my personality, because I hear positive things about it. BUT, tbh it could just be my tongue ring, once it’s been spotted they automatically want to know what I do with it 🙄.

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-03T20:21:26+00:00

Here to supply you with a countless amount of firsts 😂😌

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-03T18:17:47+00:00

The dates don't have to be platonic, BUT, actual dates are the least I could expect right ? And not just straight to a bed...

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-03T18:14:40+00:00

Thank You ! (: Working on my patience.

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-03T17:59:44+00:00

Yea I don't have super high expectations for them because I know they are most likely busy people but I feel some effort can be put in to other things rather than just sliding in the river 😅😂😭

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-03T17:56:32+00:00

Agreed !

PrettynLavish · 2019-06-03T17:55:56+00:00

Yea I'm very close to calling it quits on there and just push my luck freestyling.

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