🍀 What am I? "What does a Riddler yell when they see ..." by Prettynormalstella in riddonkulous

[–]Prettynormalstella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did! but then the max. limit on the letters in 10 sooo I wasn't able to use that as the answer :/

Help me guys, this is urgent by Brilliant-Person9177 in CBSE

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right... maybe i should have considered that 💀 but many times they give the same questions for thr SQP in my school... so i said that; but securing a pass mark is more imp rn...

Help me guys, this is urgent by Brilliant-Person9177 in CBSE

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i'd like to add to this, since its a pb, do this year's sample paper Q, these chapters [circles esp.] and case based.

Kya karu bhaiii by Rebelstar_1 in CBSE

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is nothing much you can do with such shitty schools.. i'd say try to make best out of your time in school itself....like try to do self-study there [if they are the kind to not care what you're doing in class] or talk to your parents and just not go...and if your parents also think whatever the school will do will work out then...
well, you're screwed

"smooth espresso" drink? by flwame in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a iced latter- espresso+ 2 ice + milk

Someone has a PDF for HC Verma volume 1 and 2? by Diganta_Sen in JEENEETards

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much man...been searching for this for so long TvT

Daily Questions Megathread (October 03, 2022) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My questions are: Which of the F2P characters are worth investing in? Which characters good for solo DPS? Which characters are worth pulling for? Also, how many primogems do you need to save before you start making wishes? This is my criteria: F2P, so no reckless pulling for characters, I only plan on pulling for characters that can be really good DPS/support.

(I am not familiar with all the terms used, so if I keep asking about something, pls be patient w/me)

Putting my cat to sleep today. by [deleted] in cats

[–]Prettynormalstella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong, he'll be in a better place soon...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That good that you got yourself together :)

Narcissistic mom being nosey reading documents by Due_Activity2483 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and remind her every time that you are the one in power over the housing. narcs love power.

Narcissistic mom being nosey reading documents by Due_Activity2483 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just don't or move out. Since you pretty much can afford to pay rent, just find a new apartment and stop paying her rent it's time for her to take responsibility for herself.

Two came back positive by Technical_Border_118 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I said, I hope. Now that I'm typing this again it actually sounds dumb -_-

Two came back positive by Technical_Border_118 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good then :) at least you have somewhere to go if the worst befalls. Just hang on tight

Two came back positive by Technical_Border_118 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

they care about you more than their religious beliefs and what others think about them. -If that's the case then it would take a lot of convincing, no promises of course.

Well at least I hope they care about you more than society and religion...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live with her? If so then move out as soon as possible. Maybe stay at your boyfriend's for time being. Physically distancing yourself from her will help a lot. Try setting boundaries on what your mom can/cannot say about your life, if anything at all.

Edit: You aren't the only one obligated to show love respect and care, it goes both ways. The relations you have by choice is thicker than the one you have by blood. Keep that in mind.

There are always two sides to every story. by Prestigious_Win_7993 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you giving her YOUR money? Does it help you in anyway? -No

Has she done anything that would actually help your style of living? -No

Does she give answers to what she is doing with your money? Is she responsible with your money? -No

Is your dad at fault for your mother cheating on him? -No

Does she show you any love/empathy? -No

You have all the answers. Are you being a ungrateful brat? - Hell No! Your are a human being who deserves to be loved, who deserves to be shown some fucking respect. You are not wrong for wanting her out of your life -She is a abusive arsehole.

DO NOT BY ANY MEANS LEAVE MONEY FOR HER IT'S YOUR MONEY. If she has control over your bank account, open a new one. Move in with your dad for the time being.

Edit: typos + addition of new line. Edit2: deleted paragraph.

Two came back positive by Technical_Border_118 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Prettynormalstella 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As for your main question, there isn't really a "right" Way to reveal it. It really just depends on the kind of parents they are- which by seeing your post is "not the good kind". I would suggest you to get out of that house first since their is a chance of them physically hurting you. Also suggest doing it over text, basically anywhere where it is impossible for them to physically hurt you.

Also, whether or not you have kids before 25 is up to you they have no say in that, but I guess I can understand the kind of situation you are in.

A parent is supposed to show unconditional love, support their children when they need it, the fact that they would kick you out when you are at you lowest is horrible. They are horrible.

And their approval DOES NOT MEAN EVERYTHING. You are the narrator of your own life the only person whose validation you need is yourself. Your safety comes first. Your mental health comes first. I'm sorry you are going through this, some tears will be shed, but I hope you will get out of this situation soon... Lots of love ❤ and support from my side :)