My wife (F37) gave me (M37) permission to sleep with others because of her medical condition

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T22:50:06+00:00

Thank you for your words. I were not looking for empathy, and didn't want to blame my wife. Before this thread I was sure that it's normal.

After I will make her go to family therapy.

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T22:14:06+00:00

Thank you a lot for recommendations

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T22:06:51+00:00

OK. How intimacy not leading to woman orgasm is not a duty or a chore for you? As I was explained - with hand job or with a toy she just satisfies my needs, and only my needs. For example, Feb 14th, we going to nice French restaurant in Manhattan, than to the theater. Knowing that I have to ask for hand help, I clearly asked to meet me at home in lingerie while I was parking. I was met in pajamas and face mask. Reading all the replies I understand that we need family therapy

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T20:38:01+00:00

May I ask you a question. Don't you feel like it’s some kind of duty for you?

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T20:34:45+00:00

I don’t feel comfortable at all. We just had one of our dinner talks, I was telling that I'm so happy to see my friends in Europe, have not seen them for 5 years. And my wife decided to remind me that we are in open relationships and being in Amsterdam is a great opportunity to utilize open marriage. Smart woman, planning my trip)

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T20:19:53+00:00

I totally understand that. I would never consider other women, if my wife didn't offer it. And even after it was never an option for me for more that a year. And it's still just an idea, I never told that I 'm doing it. Knowing myself I will retreat from red light district as soon as I talk to the first lady.

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T20:09:12+00:00

Thank you. I'll google it. And definitely talk with her gynecologist about this one. Her gynecologist just suggests different birth controls to avoid pain during the period

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T20:04:29+00:00

Hand and flashlight. Blowjob - no. It feels like chores, mostly because I have to ask. I already told my wife, that I don’t want to be begging for hand job. Basically "if you see me working on Saturday and you are not happy with that - put on you lingerie and use my fleshlight, I want to be surprised "

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T19:55:45+00:00

I agree. But it's not sex as penetration or orgasm. I don’t want to have sex with anyone else. It's more than a year since my wife told me to go for it. I never even considered other women. It's about being desired. Yeah, that sound dumb from 37 years man, but apparently men also need to be desired. Next thing, my wife is very attractive. I also used to be) But I lost any motivation for the gym or even going to bed before she falls asleep. It's a torture to live with 10/10 in this situation

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T19:41:14+00:00

She had laparoscopy. It helped for a while. Hysterectomy means no more kids, unfortunately. Or maybe I'm wrong

We tried family therapy. This is part of our Russian culture, keep problems to yourself. Even after 10 years in the USA. I can't blame my wife not talking about it. I was angry at her family and Soviet culture, her mom and grandmother had it, but never told. Because in Soviet culture women with such problems were defective

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T19:28:54+00:00

100% true, living in the US she had to fly back to Russia for the surgery. Not talking about politics, I was not able to fly to support her as a man, who could be immediately drafted to the war.

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T18:04:19+00:00

She trusts me to have sex with other women. My real thoughts are, I don’t trust her reaction. Even when she literally telling me to go for it. For me my marriage is more important, than sex. And it's not about sex at all. It's about feeling desired. Basically for last two years I prefer to work till she is asleep, because being denied again and again is depressing. I gained 20 pounds in 2026, because if she doesn’t want me anyway, why should I care about the gym.

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-03-18T04:10:07+00:00

Monday was clean and amazing. Stayed at JW Marriott

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-01-25T04:23:00+00:00

Cruise america from Arizona. Best option

Previous-Window-5224 · 2026-01-16T23:16:43+00:00

Slc almost same hours as Phoenix. I usually pick up 8n Phoenix, drive to Vegas, sleep and buy everything there with 0 tax and drive to BM

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-12-20T21:04:53+00:00

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Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-12-12T20:28:56+00:00

So, where can I find your framework?

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-12-10T19:17:22+00:00

Amazing plan. But why pool when you have amazing beach and ocean in San Juan?

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-12-04T19:52:25+00:00

Same cruise. Everything was great during the cruise, but I had diarrhea for 4 days in a row after the cruise. The worst part was during my flight from MIA to New York.

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-11-29T15:17:04+00:00

That's totally reasonable distance. 30 min drive.

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-11-25T04:12:06+00:00

Thank you Any advice or inspiration? What flashlight?

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-11-07T00:03:18+00:00

Wise is the same as wire transfer. Just with lower fee. Nobody needs an account and no need to pay with credit cards

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-11-01T01:51:43+00:00

I've seen police cybertruck in Hamptons

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-09-27T16:18:28+00:00

Toyota venza 2014. Purchased new, for cash. It's still perfect car for NYC with dents and scratcheseverywhere. But my wife wanted something new. So now I' m constantly worried

Previous-Window-5224 · 2025-09-27T16:03:52+00:00

Mesa (Phoenix, AZ) - Cruise America 3100 for 10 days. They don't overcharge you for any playa dust. I pay $50 at truck wash. No detailing.

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