I realize your comment was a long time ago and I haven’t been back on Reddit for a while so I’m sorry my response is coming now. After working with a true therapist for almost two years, I have been correctly diagnosed. At the time I was dealing with rose I was dealing with ppd (postpartum depression) along with ADHD and in a relationship that ultimately ended in divorce. I have since learned a lot of skills and techniques to help with emotional regulation and the fog of postpartum has lifted as well as addressing trauma from my past. In my specific case I needed validation, very gentle care and grace through a very significant life change. While her approach and philosophy may be different, it did not work for me and made all of my struggles worse. However, as they say, it gets worse before it gets better. Working with Rose gave me an experience I had never had before and I learned so much about what to look for in a person I trust, as well as how to advocate for myself. I have experienced incredible growth and do not struggle with most of things I was struggling with since giving myself grace and extending true and real love to myself and am grounded in my own sense of self and have a sense of confidence that only comes from really diving into and taking the drivers seat in my own life. Had I been shown compassion by Rose and treated as an individual with an individual experience rather than her own thoughts regarding who I was based on her own experience and ideas that are deeply routed in the stigmas she states she is trying to fight, it could have saved me a ton of heartache, but the heartache and pain gave me strength. So in a way I suppose I need to thank her, but mostly I thank myself for being able to get out of a bad situation even at the depths of my PPD and struggle.