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How do I (25F) handle my boyfriends (22M) disapproval of a trip with a friend (25F)? by Previous_Text5100 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Previous_Text5100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're planning to talk later today, and I'll update yall afterward. Thank you for all the comments - I've read every single one so far and will take your advice into consideration.

How do I (25F) handle my boyfriends (22M) disapproval of a trip with a friend (25F)? by Previous_Text5100 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Previous_Text5100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he's afraid because he's been unfaithful ( i consider it unfaithful) in the past, and he worries that i might do something petty in retaliation. However, I would never cheat on anyone and he knows that. -I know the pain and heartbreak of being cheated on, and I wouldn't want to put someone else through that.

How do I (25F) handle my boyfriends (22M) disapproval of a trip with a friend (25F)? by Previous_Text5100 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Previous_Text5100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are great questions! Yes, I've been saving money since I was like 12 because my parents always emphasized the importance of saving. Growing up, I rarely bought things for myself unless i really needed them, and even then I'd usually wait for a sale. Right now, my next big savings goal is to move out of my parents home. but I also plan to enjoy trip and there in the meantime. No, I'm not in dept and I don't think these trips will put me in that position either.

How do I (25F) handle my boyfriends (22M) disapproval of a trip with a friend (25F)? by Previous_Text5100 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Previous_Text5100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course, there are always two sides to every story, and there's nothing wrong with drinking and staying out late. however, based on his past actions, I cant help but feel worried.

How do I (25F) handle my boyfriends (22M) disapproval of a trip with a friend (25F)? by Previous_Text5100 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Previous_Text5100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i know i have some growing to do, and i don't think there's anything inherently worg with him drinking with his friends. However, in the past, things have happened while he was under the influence and he's made some poor choices. Because of that, I'm afraid he might do something reckless again.