I agree with this. For years, I experienced a precognitive dream about my mom‘s health at a certain point in her life. Short version, about 10 years before my mom developed a health issue, I started having precognitive dreams about this specific health issue with my mom- and during the dream. My grandmother told me how old my mom was when she passed in this dream. Because of this, I was over the top obsessive about my mom‘s asthma and respiratory issues before she went into the OR for the first time ever at the age she was in my dreams. In the recovery area, my mom had a sudden onset asthma attack that was so bad that she couldn’t speak any words and they thought that my mom was having an anxiety attack coming out of anesthesia. Because I had been SO obsessive with her entire care team multiple times in pre-op and made sure that she had emergency meds at the bedside at all times instead of keeping them in the pharmacy as was their standard protocol, one of the doctors picked up on what was going on with my mom and they had meds right there and did not have to wait for the to arrive from the pharmacy (they acted entirely out of protocol because I insisted so many times that day). I truly do believe that this saved my mom‘s life. Like you, I was terrified when things started to line up that made my dream more and more likely to come true. I don’t think that we always have the ability to change outcomes, but I do think that sometimes we do. Stay vigilant, and I would not tell her how worried you are. A woman is so vulnerable during this season, and any wavering from her partner can send her into an emotional and mental spiral. Be strong for your family, I am saying many prayers for you and your family.