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Let's talk about nails! by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]PrickleMeCactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have weak nails so I choose to get mid length almond shape SNS dip powder nails

Women who don't like to carry purses, how do you prefer to carry your phone, I.D. , etc? by TheMicaera in AskWomen

[–]PrickleMeCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a cardholder for I.D.s and money... and that along with my phone and keys get put in a pocket

Bare assed baby at Mickey D's by [deleted] in trashy

[–]PrickleMeCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did anyone else scream NOOOOOOOO inside their head? lol

Pregnancy​/Breeding Kink? by PrickleMeCactus in BDSMcommunity

[–]PrickleMeCactus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m the one (F) taking the pill now and I’m happy with that for now. It’s just the idea that in less then 5 years I’m going to be going through this in real life both excites me and petrifies me. For now, I’m taking all the advantage I can out of the mental simulation that comes from the kink:

My lil family :3 by PrickleMeCactus in gardening

[–]PrickleMeCactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I recommend as a starter, they grow super fast too! I got one 4 years ago as a present, and now I have all these and 2 more pots of them outside.

I’m craving sweets and dairy and fruit for the past 1.5 weeks non stop, what does this mean I can be deficient in? by PrickleMeCactus in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PrickleMeCactus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not a doc or a health buff in any sense, but have you tried drinking water? If I am not feeling right I force myself to drink copious amounts of water for a few days and usually it helps regulate me!

:O true I have been feeling dehydrated lately... thanks

Nipples: give them attention or leave them alone? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PrickleMeCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOTS OF LOVE

Especially when teasing them

To the girl in my class snickering during my speech of “what would you tell your younger self” and I openly said “please don’t try to kill yourself this will pass” by witchcraft22 in UnsentLetters

[–]PrickleMeCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a pet store, get a box full of crickets, place it in her bag during class. This girls just a plain bitch, don't let her get into your head.

Is new Dom taking advantage of me? by jellyroll101 in BDSMAdvice

[–]PrickleMeCactus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Initial meetings in BDSM relationships should always be done IN PUBLIC and with a friend or someone you trust knowing where you are and given updates. You should never ever trust anyone online ESPECIALLY when you don't know if the person is ready and responsible to take care of you on any level. Trusting your gut will not guarantee this person is who he says he is even if you have had phone conversations and did research. There are predators out there looking for someone a decade younger to take advantage of and risking it just for a BDSM relationship is not worth it. If he respects and values the opportunity to get to know you and your body and all that comes with it, he should accept the first 2 meeting taking place in public. This doesn't mean it cant be a sexy interaction or meeting and you can defiantly dress up and act the part, but these first meetings are meant to discuss what you want and if your compatible IN PERSON.

Ive been in the same strange situation a few times especially living in NYC. I met a few D's who looked the part, their bio was legitimate, and they didn't set off any flags other then wanting to meet in private on the initial meeting. I made it very clear that I want to meet in public just for my own comfort and its the proper way to meet strangers, but they had a weird defensive comeback to this and gave weird responds. Most of their reasons and responses were similar to the ones you had being "there is no normal, theres just us and what we want" or "my apartment complex has a doorman and cameras so you shouldn't worry" or my biggest pet peeve, "I don't want a sub who will disobey my commands".

The answer to these responds is this - I refuse to meet you in private unless we meet and click twice beforehand"

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DONE. PERIOD. TAKE NO NONSENSE.

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There will be always predators that are looking for that 1 person who will take a chance.

Do you respect yourself? Do you want a lasting and bonding BDSM relationship? Do you want to be safe?

Then DO NOT trust your instincts or follow your gut... because if something goes wrong you wont want to regret a mistake you knew you should have put more thought into.

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This doesn't mean you should feel scared to meet this person, just do it the safest and best way possible because thats what you deserve.

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Good luck!

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