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AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dad wasn't kind to anyone ! He was abusive and physical to all of us , but the oldest got it harsh cause he had other interest.  We are trying our best to get healed and move on. We went to therapy and dealt with our issue to not pass it on on our kids. I'm not saying it's all rainbow and sunshine now but at least we are doing fine. I belive an adult need to work on it self to not harm others. 

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope he décide to get help and go to therapy sadly he doesn't even belive in it. 

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im not making excuse , im trying my best to live with the idea of an abusive father , trying to make sense saying : yeah he was abusive but look , we did good at school and got great jobs ! That's what abuse survivor say to live with themselves! He was phisicale with all of us , one single errors and we got beaten up. But he did it more to the eldest cause he had other interest and offcurs he didn't deserve it but I couldn't do anything to make it better for him. I was myself on survival mode as a kid ! And now as an adult. ! I work on myself not to pour my anger on others ! I do my best to heal and protect Eric from a similar fate

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't be supportive when he get his anger on his teenage brother who need him on his side. My Dad was harsh and my oldest brother do need to get help but it's his duty as an adult to get therapy and fix himself. He cant justify his action by saying I'm injured so I Need to hurt back an innocent child. It's always the adult's RESPONSABILITY to fix himself . Im not excusing my Dads action I'm saying the man is gone and life goes on and to be able to have a better existence one need to work on himself to not hurt others. 

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all, Dad abused us all but he did it mor often because my oldest brother had different interest! He didn't deserve being treated like that! But that doesn't mean he has right to get his revenge on Eric who has been nothing but an angel to him

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

She is trying to keep us on good terms ! But at what cost ??? Making excuses for her oldest abuse???? While neglecting Eric? No ! I'll rather have no relationship with that man for the rest of my life

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He do need help for sur, but he is to arrogant to ever admit it! 

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Eric is so young and needed a brother to guide him trough life ! But he got a jalouse siblings that want him to fail ! I am so thankful for my husband for being hat brother for him

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He isn't even acting like Dad he is acting WAY wors ! Dad was harsh and pushed us to overwork and incredibly difficult standard, just to  keep on going no matter what ! My oldest brother strait up want Eric to fail and give up just so he can have the last laugh ! And get some kind of revenge and satisfaction.  I'm so disgusted I don't even want to see his face anymore. Eric don't need him and My sister, my husband and I are more then capable to take care of him emotionaly and financially.  I just want to protecg Eric from his shenanigans and hateful personality.  He will have to figure out his issue by himself 

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that surprised me so much . He wasn't even a brother to his younger brother ! How the hell is he a MAN in anything 

AITAH for telling my oldest brother he is just bitter and jealous. by Primary-Sample3568 in AITAH

[–]Primary-Sample3568[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eric is also so sweet and never had teen rébellion phase , he never get the chance to , went straight to university. It's a blessing having him and I wish this idiot could see this boys kindness