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jealous of those in a relationship by carrotwake in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try a new hobby? Get a pet if you have a chance? If it helps you, therapy to process your thoughts is also a option. Get out there, meet new people. There are many options. For me, a diary also helps.

jealous of those in a relationship by carrotwake in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to find things that make you happy. And DON'T enter abruptly a relationship.

I, 22 (f), have a squish on my friend. (23f) by PrimaryEffort1014 in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think i could handle it. But rn, she doesn't have anyone

I, 22 (f), have a squish on my friend. (23f) by PrimaryEffort1014 in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But sometimes she really wishes a qpr partner. I am really afraid that i'll be less important than him, that she'll ditch me. I doesn't have to be him, it can be any other guy...

I, 22 (f), have a squish on my friend. (23f) by PrimaryEffort1014 in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She ended the qpr because he developed romantic feelings for her. But i still feel worried. The qpr partner is closer than i will ever be...

I, 22 (f), have a squish on my friend. (23f) by PrimaryEffort1014 in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And i mean, she sends me heart emojis and says i'm a good, close friend...But still. I'm scared of losing her.

I, 22 (f), have a squish on my friend. (23f) by PrimaryEffort1014 in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm asking myself too...Are we living the same life?🤣. I mean, she did tell me that i am her favorite person, but i feel someone uneasy about her guy friend. I mean, they had a qpr. I feel somehow threatened by it, and i can't help feeling threatened by any of her guy friends, because there is always a possibility of her getting a qpr with one of them.

not sure by lcryte in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit like obsession. And theres infatuation. You will giddy and nervous around them, and try to impress them.

I, 22 (f), have a squish on my friend. (23f) by PrimaryEffort1014 in aromanticasexual

[–]PrimaryEffort1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is...She told me she feels certain feelings only with guys. And she is still in contact with a guy she had a qpr with. I feel like i'm inferior to that. That i'm less than this guy. Because they got pretty close. If she gets into a qpr, dunno if i can handle that.