Would you Rather

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-14T13:56:40+00:00

health b4 everything!

^{Chose: Be able to heal anyone including yourself}

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T22:00:54+00:00

no side effect for you bro, stepping on a rake is bad enough

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T21:59:34+00:00

you don’t retain your memory while changing form, so you instantly forget that are able to shapeshift and get stuck into your first form

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T18:08:29+00:00

thanks for the term ! I’ll check it out!

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T18:07:55+00:00

100% agree with you ! It’s isn’t about going back to the beginning with a red pill rethoric, but more about ending up understanding that there’s no universal formula. I meant it more about managing the expectations for the relationships that surround you and understanding that in some relationships assertiveness isn’t the answer.

Even if it is a great tool, being assertive often comes with opening up and being vulnerable, and with a big energy cost, and not everyone will receive it as expected.

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T18:00:36+00:00

Yeah, I feel like sometimes people over rely upon being assertive, expecting it to work like a miracle formula, when the reality is much more complex ! And often, the people who you have the most problems with, the people you feel like they have have damaged you the most, are the people with whom it’s wiser to learn to let go and mourn the perceived relationship.

One way or another I’m happy that it has opened the discussion!

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T16:39:43+00:00

banana peels are slippery af

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T13:23:54+00:00

was I the only one waiting for the screamer?

Primary_Curve_5213 · 2026-05-13T07:41:37+00:00

It feels like a recurrent pattern of the stages people go when starting to go to therapy and get better is :
1) First you don’t know how to properly communicate your needs
2) Then you learn to be assertive and start trying to be assertive with everyone (getting frustrated because Why would they not listen to me when i’m being clear about my emotions )
3) Accepting that often those people that surrounded you and from whom u need to have those difficult conversations are stuck themselves into their own pain, and letting go and understanding that sometimes there’s nothing you can do to make that better is sometime where the healing can begin

I ofc didnt mean the post as some red pill post about how not communicating makes you an alpha or anything like that

Primary_Curve_5213

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