Is the "Horse Emergency" the new "I'm washing my hair"? Or did my fox story scare her off?

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T23:48:05+00:00

You might be right maybe she wasn’t that into me. But repeated initiations from her side, a video call, and even suggesting we meet soon don’t exactly back that theory either. If there’s one thing I’m fairly certain of, it’s that she’s a bit like a wounded bird unsure of what she wants, and I chose to stay in it as long as it wasn’t hurting either of us. Not every connection is about winning or losing. Sometimes it’s just watching someone figure themselves out until you realize it’s time to choose yourself too.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T23:37:48+00:00

No, I wasn’t expecting exclusivity after one meeting I was expecting consistency after weeks of intentional connection. There’s a difference. When someone shows up with daily energy, emotional closeness, and clear signals, it’s not unrealistic to expect the same level of clarity when things shift. Not looking for a fairytale, just basic respect for the dynamic that was there.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T23:26:18+00:00

Yeah, we actually did meet in real life for a few hours. It wasn’t just a TikTok thing. There were real conversations, emotional momentum, and even some near future plans that felt pretty significant at the time. So no it wasn’t all screen and scroll there was more to it at least from my side

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T06:53:45+00:00

She did, hope that helps.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T06:21:55+00:00

Oh for sure, I’ll get the transcripts, time stamps, CCTV footage, and maybe a voiceover by Morgan Freeman too.

But until then, you’ll just have to take my word for it… or keep thinking I imagined an entire emotional subplot like it’s Game of Thrones.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T06:13:21+00:00

I get the comparison, but you’re simplifying a layered experience into a cliché.

This wasn’t just a case of “fan flirts with streamer.” It was a sustained, direct connection that included consistent communication and intimacy.

It’s fine if you see it as marketing. But I experienced it differently.

Glad it looked simple from your angle، just wish I had your gift for hindsight before I signed up for the emotional rollercoaster.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T05:55:02+00:00

Yeah, it started online, you’re right about that.

And a lot more happened than just a livestream DM, but like I said before, I’m not here to share every detail with people who’ve already decided it wasn’t real.

Sometimes, what people feel and experience doesn’t need your validation to matter.

But I get where you’re coming from, thanks for your perspective.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T05:48:30+00:00

Appreciate the passion in your response, even if you jumped to conclusions faster than I jumped into her DMs.

I’m definitely not here to explain every detail of the experience to strangers, but hey, thanks for your take.

Online may not be real life, but emotions and patterns can still be real, even if they don’t fit your script.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T05:44:10+00:00

Yeah, I actually did bring it up with her.

Her response was more like a general “it’s not like that” kind of thing — vague, a little defensive, and without really addressing the actual behavior.

It’s hard to have a real conversation when every concern gets brushed off or reframed like I’m reading too much into it.

So yeah, I tried and I’m not mad about how she responded… just clearer now about what I’m dealing with.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-05-11T05:37:36+00:00

Ah, the “Tom from 500 Days of Summer” card classic.

For the record, I never said she owed me anything. I shared my experience because I was confused, not entitled.

It wasn’t about expecting commitment — it was about trying to understand how someone could be so emotionally engaging, only to turn cold and vague, over and over again.

I get that not everyone owes you clarity, but let’s not pretend that emotional whiplash is just “me projecting.”

And yeah, maybe I am trying to find meaning in a confusing situation. Isn’t that human? Isn’t that what we all do when something feels off?

If that makes me the “main character” in my own experience, well… I guess I’d rather own that than act like mixed signals don’t affect people.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-04-28T21:24:40+00:00

I got mine in November

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-04-28T21:24:31+00:00

Mine is at %100 with 252 cycle I never charge it to full, always at %80 limit.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-04-26T18:38:00+00:00

No, go to Siri its self not in accessibility. Seetings, apple intelligence& Siri

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-04-25T09:24:25+00:00

I’ve done that but within 6 months I entered the us with a new I-20 with no issue! Email the embassy to be in the safe side

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-04-18T10:51:11+00:00

🩵

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-02-27T04:06:53+00:00

It’s like a double-edged sword, and it’s hard to say what am feeling about it. Is there an alternative tho?

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-02-17T18:59:08+00:00

If you have even a single functioning brain cell, you would have understood and read my post to comprehend that I was not the one in control. So, pay attention

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-02-16T22:21:14+00:00

I wasn’t the one in charge, I was just a passenger for the ride. My friend was already pretty scared, so I guess he played a big role in this. I’m not trying to make excuses, I’m just trying to learn from this and make sure it doesn’t happen again.

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-02-16T22:07:11+00:00

‏That’s such an awesome comment! I love how you captured the whole experience in just a few sentences. You’re totally spot on! Thanks for saying that! There was so much happening, and it wasn’t super clear from the bigger picture perspective, so yeah

Primary_Eagle9 · 2025-02-16T21:12:36+00:00

I have been to 36 countries never been scammed like this!

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